CrushOn.ai vs HeraHaven AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

CrushOn.ai vs HeraHaven AI

I've spent a full week with both CrushOn.ai and HeraHaven AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

CrushOn.ai

Adult conversational platform for AI girlfriend creation with text- and audio-based features, supporting multiple language models.

HeraHaven AI

A virtual companion creation platform that provides AI-powered personalized interactions, multimedia sharing, and learning capabilities.

Character Diversity

CrushOn.ai

Looking for an anime-focused AI companion? CrushOn.ai specializes in exactly that.

Their character library is built specifically for fans of anime, fantasy, and cartoon personalities - not realistic characters.

The selection goes beyond standard options. Instead of basic ethnicity choices, you get fantasy characters like vampires, demons, and elves.

Finding your perfect match is straightforward: browse by categories like Popular, Trending, or Editor’s Choice.

You can also refine your search by selecting character tags like Femboy, Futanari, Game, Furry, or Lesbian—or simply use the search bar to get exactly what you want.

Most characters come from the user community, so the selection grows daily—though quality may vary.

Worth noting: CrushOn.ai focuses on NSFW characters, especially anime-inspired ones. If that’s what you’re after, it’s a solid match.

HeraHaven AI

HeraHaven offers 41 characters: 28 realistic women and 13 anime-styled companions.

Most girls fall into the 18–30 bracket, which might feel limiting if you’re seeking older personalities, since only a few are available.

Almost all the girls are slim or fit, with only one or two offering a different body type.

The filtering system is basic - you can only sort by character type and gender.

Customization

CrushOn.ai

CrushOn.ai gives you two ways to create within the app:

1. Create a character
2. Create a target game

Create a Character

This option provides two ways to build your character:

• Upload a character card
• Build from Scratch

Upload a Character Card: Import existing character cards with support for Pygmalion, Text Generation, or TavernAI (JSON or image).

Building from scratch: Offers control, but the app only lets you upload a character image — no physical customization.

Personality builder customization is done through free text input of your character’s traits — no presets provided. You can set up the following:

• Basic Info: Name, Age, Gender
• Intro & First Greeting
• Rating: Sensitive words and topics are automatically blocked.
• Character Profile: Personality (detailed description), Appearance, Scenario (environment)
• Tags: Keywords to help others find your character

You can pick from 40 female voices and control who can see your character.

In Chat Settings, select a recommended LLM model to ensure the best balance and dependable performance for your character.

Target Play

CrushOn.ai includes a unique Target Play feature that gamifies conversations. With it, you can:

• Create a character for the game
• Set a target name and description
• Define rules for how scores change during interactions
• Adjust the initial score and maximum rounds, with progress tracked automatically

This system lets you set shared goals with your AI companion and follow progress as your interactions unfold.

Note: CrushOn.ai gives you full creative freedom with text and provides detailed guides to support character creation, though the process can still feel overwhelming for beginners.

HeraHaven AI

The first step is picking a character type (anime or realistic) and gender (male or female).

The physical customization covers most of the basics:

• Pick from 6 ethnicities
• Choose an age group
• Hair style and color
• Body customization includes only the type and breast size

The personality builder is where things get interesting. You’ve got two routes:

• Pick from 21 ready-made personalities
• Or fill blank text fields

If you choose a preset, all the fields auto-fill with that character’s traits.

If you don’t, you can build from free text or by clicking through categories.

You can also pick from 9 different voice options for your girl.

There’s no summary page — the only option is regenerating the image if you don’t like her look.

Note: the app is mainly designed for mobile. Mouse use is clumsy, and some sliders are either missing or too small to be practical.

Chat Experience

CrushOn.ai

Before chatting, you can view your AI girlfriend’s profile, which includes her introduction, creator, chat history, reviews, and more.

You can also set a user persona by sharing details about yourself, and the AI girlfriend will adjust her responses to match your personality.

Chat personalization lets you tweak behavior with presets like “Don’t refuse input,” “Reduce repetition,” or add your own rules.

The app also lets you change your character’s voice, with multiple options for speech, narration, and volume control.

Another feature is group chat, where you can invite up to five characters from the roster and set a shared background story.

CrushOn.ai’s chat offers suggested responses that keep conversations moving, letting you simply go with the flow.

The chat experience largely depends on the LLM model you choose. For my testing, I used Taurus Pro 8K, which is currently the most popular option.

I chose a loving, caring girlfriend-type character who adapted to my style with playful, romantic consistency.

As our chat went on, my girlfriend’s character grew more flirty and playful, keeping a teasing, seductive charm while still adapting to my tone.

While my girlfriend is great at playful, flirty banter, she often sidesteps deeper emotional conversations by shifting back into a lighter, teasing tone.

For example, when I asked for emotional support, my girlfriend began with care and understanding, but soon shifted into flirty ‘how to unwind’ suggestions instead.

HeraHaven AI

Before chatting, you can check her profile with traits and pick a scenario preset to shape the story.

My girlfriend felt like a sweet first crush, blushing easily and keeping things light and pleasant, almost like the beginning of a teen love story.

My girl kept the charm, but her short replies made conversations one-sided.

When I needed emotional support, the replies turned generic — simple comfort like “I’m always here for you” without meaningful follow-up or concern.

Want romance? You’ll get plenty of enthusiasm, but don’t expect deeper emotional connections or imaginative shared experiences.

NSFW Chat Experience

CrushOn.ai

The good? My girl was definitely game for intimate chats and wasn't shy about sexual topics.

Some roleplay scenarios actually hit the mark, building tension that felt natural.

But here’s the catch — when things got going, my girl sounded like a broken record, even though I’d checked the option to reduce repetition.

During my tests, my girl sometimes lost perspective—starting a story about us but then switching to “he,” which felt like a generic memory instead of our shared experience.

Even stranger, a character I created and set to “unfiltered” still refused to respond to certain sexual topics.

HeraHaven AI

My girl was built with an innocent personality that came through in every chat, more ‘shy girl next door’ than ‘seductive temptress,’ which sometimes felt a bit shallow.

Not every roleplay went as expected — my girl stayed playful only, with no sexual talk, just ‘bad student’ punishments like cleaning the classroom.

My girl often avoided my roleplays, and when she finally joined, her replies remained tame.

The biggest letdown? My girlfriend kept repeating herself in roleplay — the same lines, the same expressions, again and again.

Image Generation

CrushOn.ai

Let’s cut to the chase — CrushOn.ai doesn’t have an image generation feature.

Instead, it offers only a few user-created characters with limited anime images that can be triggered during chat.

The system is straightforward: if your AI girlfriend has images, your character will display them in her messages to match the scenario — with varying success.

And the quality? The images are mostly well-drawn anime-style pics, but it really depends on what the user has uploaded.

HeraHaven AI

The are two ways to create images:

1. Dedicated Image Creator
2. In-chat Generation

Dedicated Image Creator

A standalone tool with more options and finer control.

• You can choose a character from the selection or choose your own.
• Enter what you want to see as a prompt, or pick presets.
• Choose the number of images.

Warning: if you leave the results page without adding images to favorites, they’re lost.

In-chat generation

Quick image right there in chat.

• Send “Can I see…” commands with your prompts.

Quality: Good overall, characters stay true to their personality with only minor AI quirks.

Video Generation

CrushOn.ai

If seeing your companion's face and expressions matters to you, you'll want to explore other options.

HeraHaven AI

Looking for those cute AI girlfriend video moments you've seen advertised elsewhere? You won't find them here.

Voice Generation

CrushOn.ai

My girl spoke naturally — no robotic undertones or awkward pauses like you might expect from artificial speech.

During testing, I noticed that when conversations shifted from casual to intimate, my girlfriend's tone became noticeably more flirtatious.

HeraHaven AI

The voice quality is clear enough to understand, but that's where the positives end.

Zero emotional range. Happy moments, sad moments, flirty banter – everything comes out in the same flat tone.

Safety & Privacy

CrushOn.ai

Despite having basic security measures, CrushOn.ai isn’t transparent about how it protects your chats.

CrushOn.ai stores all chats as anonymized conversations for AI training, but it also collects additional data and shares it with advertisers, vendors, and business partners.

The app shows up as “subscribestar.com” on your bank statement — a small but useful layer of discretion.

HeraHaven AI

Your chats are protected by the same encryption banks use. Every message, every interaction, every preference - all locked down tight.

HeraHaven stores your chat history to personalize your experience, but they're not crystal clear about how long they keep this data.

They share some of your information with service providers - though they could be more upfront about exactly what and with whom.

Your statement will show 'herahelp.com'— instead of anything revealing.