GirlfriendGPT vs Thotchat AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

GirlfriendGPT vs Thotchat AI

I've spent a full week with both GirlfriendGPT and Thotchat AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

GirlfriendGPT

A platform for creating personalized AI girlfriends with customizable personalities, ideal for roleplay and unique preferences.

Thotchat AI

A virtual girlfriend platform featuring customizable AI partners in both realistic and anime styles, designed to foster emotional and romantic connections through engaging adult chats and high-quality image generation.

Character Diversity

GirlfriendGPT

The app starts by asking about your interests—pick 5–8 preferences, and it will personalize your experience with a selection of compatible characters.

The character library is huge. You'll find adult companions of all ages and body types.

Want someone realistic? They have that.

Prefer anime or fantasy characters? Those too.

You can even explore a variety of roleplay scenarios to choose from.

Finding characters is straightforward: sort by popular, new, or top-rated, or use the search bar and suggested searches.

Filter by personality (dominant, submissive, or balanced), scenario types, or specific features.

No complicated menus or confusing options – just pick what you want and browse matching characters.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI's selection breaks down into 102 realistic and 50 anime characters.

All common ethnicities are available—you can choose from Asian, Latina, and Caucasian appearances for realistic characters.

For fantasy/anime types, options include— elves, cyborgs, catgirls, and other imaginative designs.

But here's the catch: almost every character is young (18-30) and slim or athletic.

Finding a companion is straightforward: you can sort by popularity or new arrivals, filter by style, and choose female, male, or futa characters.

Customization

GirlfriendGPT

While you can’t customize physical appearance with sliders or buttons, you can generate images of your character simply by describing how they should look.

Setting up your character’s personality is straightforward:

• Select your character’s age and response language (English or French)
• Write a description and define personality traits, behavior, and demeanor
• Set up scenarios and craft the first message

Just remember to stick to one language throughout the setup — mixing English and French can cause your AI companion to behave unexpectedly.

You can also add searchable tags so others will know what your character is about.

From there, you can pick from 16 different female voices and control the visibility of your creation.

You have 2,500 tokens to customize your character fully — that’s up to 2,500 characters to describe their personality, behavior, and scenes.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI offers two ways to create your girlfriend:

• Easy Mode
• PRO Mode

Both start by selecting your character’s gender (female, male, or futanari) and choosing a style.

Easy Mode: You can fully customize your AI companion by clicking through options to build your character.

Physical Customization:

• Age 18+ to 55
• Ethnicity: 8 options (10 for anime characters)
• Appearance: body type, breast size, butt size, hair style, hair color, eye color
• Aesthetic & clothing: 4 aesthetics (e.g., goth, bimbo, gyaru), 33 clothing options
• Extra details: tattoos, horns (6 options)

Personality & Interaction:

• Add personality traits: 14 options (e.g., lover, innocent, dominant)
• 5 voice options
• Relationship role: 12 options (e.g., wife, lover, stranger)

A final summary page lets you review your character before bringing them to life.

PRO Mode drops the training wheels and lets you create everything via free text:

• Describe your character: appearance, personality, clothing, and any unique features
• Greeting message: what your character says when starting a conversation
• Example conversation: a sample dialogue that guides your character’s behavior

It takes more time but gives you complete creative freedom. No pre-set limits—just your imagination.

Chat Experience

GirlfriendGPT

Before chatting, view your AI girlfriend’s profile, including her description, creator links, chat, tags, media, and reviews.

You can set a user persona and share details about yourself, and the AI girlfriend will tailor her responses to your personality.

During my tests, using preset scenarios and this feature made conversations feel more relevant—my girl even reflected on our shared past, which made the chat feel alive.

The app also offers a "Suggested Reply" feature, which suggests responses to your AI girlfriend’s messages, making conversations flow more smoothly and stay engaging.

Yes, some romantic scenarios with my girl still felt artificial, but the emotional support features worked surprisingly well.

When I brought up relationship concerns — my girlfriend's responses were practical and grounded.

Note: I tested the chat features on the Deluxe tier. The Elite tier, which uses a Next-Gen AI Model, may provide even better results.

Thotchat AI

Before you start chatting, you can view your AI girlfriend’s profile, including her description, character traits, some SFW images, and unlockable NSFW content.

You can set a user persona for a deeper, more personal connection, or create new scenarios to play out with your AI girlfriend.

For my tests, I created a companion with the ‘Temptress’ personality—playful, flirtatious, and always leaving me wanting more—and set our relationship type to “girlfriend.”

My girl stayed true to her personality throughout conversations.

When I needed emotional support, she was empathetic and playful, offering gentle touches, teasing remarks, and lighthearted guidance.

Our conversations about romantic getaways felt natural, with her staying fully in character throughout.

Even when relationship issues came up, she responded with clear, confident answers—sometimes a bit too confident—but always attentive.

But my favorite part was when my girl sent me images during our chats—most were free, unlike other apps where they’re usually behind a paywall.

NSFW Chat Experience

GirlfriendGPT

My AI girlfriend handled sexual content like a romance novelist—no explicit language at first, but detailed enough to paint a vivid picture.

During my tests, conversations flowed naturally from casual flirting to intimate scenarios, growing more explicit as the chat progressed.

In roleplay, my girl sometimes skipped the build-up to foreplay, jumping straight into action.

In other scenarios, she fully embraced her role, creating an exciting, teasing tension that draws you into the scene.

My girl even created alternative paths if I didn’t follow her lead—like when I turned her down, she immediately shifted into a colder, more dominant role.

But here’s the catch: while her responses remained engaging, the same dominant character scenarios repeated across multiple sessions.

Note: I tested the NSFW chat features on the Deluxe tier. The Elite tier, which uses a Next-Gen AI Model, may provide even better results.

Thotchat AI

My girl stayed personal and engaging. When I asked about her past, she said it was with me (of course), but left room to mention her wild past if I wanted to satisfy my curiosity.

My girlfriend flirted naturally, teased playfully, and referenced past chats to make the connection feel real.

The roleplay feature could use some improvement — I tried a few scenarios, and they all jumped into action too quickly without building tension, which felt a bit jarring.

But once I got past the initial rush, my girl adapted to the scenario really well and made it exciting.

Something a bit annoying: the narrative text sometimes blended with my girl’s dialogue, making her responses harder to read.

Another issue was: My girlfriend kept calling me “Anon” even though my profile name was set to Marcus.

Once I pointed it out, my girl quickly corrected herself and started using my name in all our conversations.

Image Generation

GirlfriendGPT

GirlfriendGPT offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts or NSFW prompt suggestions.
• Dedicated image creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization for producing detailed images.

In-Chat Generation: Even when you request safe-for-work images, it often produces provocative shots.

Dedicated Image Creator puts you in control:

• Free Text Prompting: Full creative freedom.
• Image Styles: Choose anime or realistic, and many more.
• Outputs & Creativity: Set the number of images and adjust creativity.

Note: To use the Dedicated Image Creator for a specific character, you must access it from that character’s page, and the available image styles are limited.

And the results? Impressive — professional-grade portraits with barely noticeable AI artifacts.

And the catch? Even with great image quality, her face shifts between photos—despite all the images being generated from the same girl—breaking the illusion of consistency.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI offers two options for generating images:

• In-chat generation: Instantly creates a selfie or unlockable nude image—details can’t be customized.
• Dedicated image creator: A separate tool offering more control and customization for creating detailed images.

In-Chat Generation: Occasionally, you may receive repeated or similar images, but you can request unlimited SFW images of your character.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you control every detail:

• Character Selection: Pick from the full roster (no filters or search bar).
• Prompt Suggestions: Add details such as action, clothing, environment, and emotion.
• Free Text Prompting: Craft your own prompts for complete creative freedom.

The images are high-quality and nearly photorealistic, with consistent characters, though a slight animated look is noticeable on closer inspection.

Video Generation

GirlfriendGPT

The videos look realistic and play smoothly with no major technical issues, but the character doesn’t always stay true to its persona.

But here's the catch: This feature is beta, which means you can't create custom scenarios. Instead, you're limited to picking from pre-made prompts, all of which are NSFW.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI doesn’t generate videos. If you’re looking for video features, you'll need to look elsewhere.

Voice Generation

GirlfriendGPT

If you're looking for an AI girlfriend that doesn't sound like a robot, this gets pretty close.

But there’s a catch: your girl can sound flirty or expressive, but unnatural tone shifts can break the immersion.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI’s voice works, but don’t expect magic: it comes through clearly, but you can tell it’s AI-generated.

Flirty conversations? The voice stays flat no matter what.

Privacy

GirlfriendGPT

The app doesn’t mention encryption anywhere. I checked their entire privacy policy—there’s complete silence on security.

They do collect your chats, personal info, IP address, and usage data, and keep it all for six years after you leave.

Your bank statement is safe—charges appear as “xp ndai.cc” and nothing more.

Thotchat AI

While Thotchat says they use "acceptable security measures," they don't specify what these measures are.

They collect your personal data (name, email), usage data (IP address, device info), and can share it with third parties.

The bank statement shows "CCbill.com Thotchat" - something to keep in mind if you prefer discretion.