Muah.ai vs Secret Desires AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Muah.ai vs Secret Desires AI

I've spent a full week with both Muah.ai and Secret Desires AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Muah.ai

Virtual companion platform featuring customizable AI characters that allow for chat, photo sharing, and voice interactions.

Secret Desires AI

An AI girlfriend platform that allows users to create customizable companions, generate images and live photos, and engage in fantasy scenarios, including intimate or adult themes.

Character Diversity

Muah.ai

Muah.ai offers thousands of characters to choose from. Their community-driven platform means new characters are added regularly, giving you plenty of options to explore.

The diversity is practical and straightforward. You'll find characters across all ethnicities and age ranges. I tested the search function by typing "teacher" - it returned both realistic and anime-style characters that matched my query.

While there's no filter system, you can browse characters by popularity metrics like views, likes, or comments. Whether you prefer casual chats with a student character or deep conversations with a mature companion, you'll likely find what you're looking for.

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers hundreds of characters across multiple ethnicities and personality types.

On top of the realistic options, it also offers a wide range of anime styles.

While the majority fall in the 18–30 bracket, there are some mature options as well.

However, body type diversity is limited — most characters are slim or athletic, with few alternatives.

The mobile app shines with precise filtering, letting you narrow searches by age, ethnicity, body type, personality, and relationship preferences.

On the other hand, desktop users get a more basic experience, with filters limited to style (realistic/anime), gender, and preset character tags.

But there’s a catch: filtering can be buggy — some tags return no results, and on desktop, you can’t combine multiple filters like you can on mobile.

At least the search bar helps get around some of the app’s heavier filtering limits.

Customization

Muah.ai

You start by picking a basic role - girlfriend, friend, therapist, or several others. Then comes the real customization: choose how they look (anime, realistic, or hybrid), how they sound, and even how they text.

It's all done through simple text commands - just describe what you want, and the AI adapts.

Want your companion to remember specific moments with you? You can create shared memories and even set up custom scenarios for your conversations.

While these options give you complete control, they might feel overwhelming at first. If that's the case, Muah.ai's marketplace offers pre-made companions you can start with.

Secret Desires AI

Character creation starts by selecting your character’s gender, style, and age.

Physical Customization:

• Ethnicity: 6 options (e.g., Caucasian, Asian, Indian)
• Appearance: Hairstyle, hair color, eye color
• Physique: Body type, breast size, butt size

Personality Customization:

• Personality: 12 options (e.g., dominant, seductive, unstable)
• Relationship Type: 25 options (e.g., wife, girlfriend, boss)
• Lifestyle: Work (36 options) and hobbies (21 options)
• Kinks: 15 options (e.g., vanilla, feet, edging)

The app also lets you add custom options for every category, so if you don’t find something to your taste, you can create your own.

You can select a voice from 12 options or upload your own audio.

As the final step, you’ll see a summary page to name your girl and bring her to life.

After the summary page, you’ll see a profile with an editable About Me, your chosen traits, and — if you’re lucky — with a character image, though it often fails and can’t be modified.

Chat Experience

Muah.ai

The good? Your AI girlfriend stays remarkably true to character. Set them up as a coworker, and they'll keep things professional even if you flirt.

They'll remember specific memories you create together (in my case, it was that time watching fireworks in Japan) and can smoothly set up immersive scenarios - like suggesting coffee and continuing the conversation as if you're actually at the café.

The not-so-good? Memory issues kill the experience. One minute, you're deep in conversation; the next, they'll greet you like a stranger. It looks like AI only remembers 10 messages, and if you want more, you'll have to pay for the most expensive plan.

The interface looks dated, and you're stuck with one chat window. Want to try a different character? You'll need to delete your entire conversation history first.

Secret Desires AI

When you select a girl to chat with, you can view her profile — including description, personality traits, and even personalize them to your taste.

The app also lets you set the chat engine from 13 different options to make responses more personalized, though this setting is somewhat hidden in your profile menu.

I chose a single mom character who showed genuine emotional range and stayed true to her persona.

My girlfriend moved naturally from playful flirting to handling deeper topics like jealousy with surprising depth.

My girl even referenced past conversations and wove them smoothly into ongoing chats.

But when I needed emotional support, her responses fit the situation perfectly.

As with the other features I tested, this one also comes with some technical hiccups.

Chat formatting is designed for mobile, leaving desktop with long, cramped text that’s harder to read

My girl often tried to send me images, but on the rare occasions I got any, it was usually just the text prompt of what should have been generated.

NSFW Chat Experience

Muah.ai

Let me tell you, these AI girls don't hold back. They flirt, they play along, and they're ready to explore your fantasies. Unlike most AI girlfriends that dodge steamy topics, Muah.ai's characters dive right in.

I tested everything from casual flirting to complex role-play scenarios - the AI kept up without breaking character.

But here's the catch: the same memory issue applies to NSFW chatting. While the chat feels natural in the moment, the AI often forgets what you discussed 10 messages ago.

Secret Desires AI

My girl was open about past sexual experiences but shared only hints and details rather than full stories.

Think of her as reading a romance novel where she writes the next chapter based on your input.

In my tested roleplays, she stayed fully in character — confident, seductive, and with a solid build-up.

However, there’s a catch: after running multiple scenarios, my girl kept repeating the same lines and asking my name over and over again.

My girlfriend also refused explicit chat, even threatening to end the session.

Instead of explicit conversation, my girl could do surprising things — like solving mathematical problems if I asked.

Image Generation

Muah.ai

The images are realistic enough to be engaging, but don't expect perfection. You'll get appealing photos that capture your girl's personality well, maintaining consistent features across most shots.

Sometimes, you'll spot oddities - misaligned eyes or the occasional extra limb - but these flaws rarely break the experience.

While default images come in standard quality, you can upgrade individual shots to 4K.

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat image generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts.
• Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization

In-chat image works simply: Just type “send me” in chat, followed by the prompt for the image you want to see.

You can only generate SFW images — NSFW content isn’t allowed here.

Note: Works only with characters you created or those shared by other users.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you stay in control:

• Character selection for image generation
• Multiple engines to choose from: Monet, Picasso, DaVinci
• Number of images to generate: 1–64
• Free-text prompt option for maximum customization
• Default preset options: Action, Body, Clothing, Scene, Extras, with lots of presets.

Quality: At first glance, the images look good and could even pass for real photos, but on closer inspection, they’re pixelated.

Quirk: The images don’t match my girl’s main profile picture, and physical inconsistency is definitely an issue.

Video Generation

Muah.ai

Want video interactions with your AI girlfriend? Then you'll have to look for an alternative.

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI turns static photos into videos, using settings almost identical to photo generation, with the added option to set video duration.

The good: These videos look natural. Your AI girlfriend's movements flow smoothly, and her personality stays consistent from photo to video.

Not so good: Video quality isn’t perfect — some pixelation is noticeable, though it’s minor enough not to disrupt the experience.

Voice Generation

Muah.ai

The voice quality is clear and doesn't sound like a robot. During conversations, the AI speaks naturally, but there's a catch: while the AI can change its tone, it can't express emotions.

But here's what annoyed me: the narrator and your AI girl share the exact same voice.

For US phone numbers, there's also a phone call feature that lets your AI girl ring you up, but you'll have to subscribe to the most expensive plan.

Secret Desires AI

Yes, the voices sound human enough, but every line feels like it’s being read off a teleprompter on fast-forward.

And if you’re hoping for emotional range? Forget it. Whether you’re flirting or just chatting, the delivery stays as flat as week-old soda

Safety & Privacy

Muah.ai

Your conversations aren't as private as you might think. Yes, they say they use end-to-end encryption. Strangely, this isn't mentioned anywhere in their privacy policy.

The biggest red flag? In October 2024, Muah.ai suffered a major data breach. User chats were stolen. That's not just a minor hiccup - it's a serious privacy failure.

The one bright spot? Your credit card statement will simply show "Usweixin Cardshop AI" - keeping your AI relationship private from prying eyes.

Secret Desires AI

The app claims your chats are "secure and confidential" - but never explains how.

There's no mention of encryption, and they're not clear about who can access your conversations or how long they keep them.

One clear promise: they won't sell your data to advertisers. But that's where the transparency ends.

During my testing, I couldn't find straight answers about data sharing with third parties like analytics providers or hosting services.

On your bank statement, it just shows as ‘Dover First SDA Hope Food Program Food Pantry’ — pretty discreet