Muah.ai vs Secret Desires AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Muah.ai vs Secret Desires AI

I've spent a full week with both Muah.ai and Secret Desires AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Muah.ai

Virtual companion platform featuring customizable AI characters that allow for chat, photo, video, and voice interactions.

Secret Desires AI

An AI girlfriend platform that allows users to create customizable companions, generate images and live photos, and engage in fantasy scenarios, including intimate or adult themes.

Character Diversity

Muah.ai

Muah.ai offers thousands of characters, created by an active community of developers.

You’ll find girls across different ages and ethnicities, with both realistic and anime-styled options.

The app also includes fantasy scenarios with multiple characters or roleplay setups.

But here's the catch: finding your ideal match takes time.

You can explore by top creators or filter through categories like SFW, NSFW, or LGBTQ+, and characters can also be sorted by popularity.

The browsing system isn’t refined — realistic and anime characters appear mixed together, and there’s no way to filter by specific traits or gender.

The universal search bar helps, and while it’s not perfect, it works well enough to track down characters.

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers hundreds of characters across multiple ethnicities and personality types.

On top of the realistic options, it also offers a wide range of anime styles.

While the majority fall in the 18–30 bracket, there are some mature options as well.

However, body type diversity is limited — most characters are slim or athletic, with few alternatives.

The mobile app shines with precise filtering, letting you narrow searches by age, ethnicity, body type, personality, and relationship preferences.

On the other hand, desktop users get a more basic experience, with filters limited to style (realistic/anime), gender, and preset character tags.

But there’s a catch: filtering can be buggy — some tags return no results, and on desktop, you can’t combine multiple filters like you can on mobile.

At least the search bar helps get around some of the app’s heavier filtering limits.

Customization

Muah.ai

You get two ways to create a character:

• Import a Community Character Card and tweak it to fit your vision.
• Built from scratch with full customization

Import — you can adjust details like:

• Name
• Core data
• Appearance

Build your own from scratch — no physical presets:

• Choose a photo style: hybrid, realistic, or none
• Select her voice (9 female options)
• Describe appearance, personality, texting style, memories, and location via free text

Advanced options (membership tier–dependent):

• Adjust photo quality: from basic up to 4K UHD
• Choose an “AI brain” with up to 11 options
• Fine-tune AI settings: Temperature, Frequency Penalty, and Presence Penalty
• Link a phone number for voice calls (currently US-only)

Note: Muah AI provides detailed guides to help with character creation, but the process can still feel overwhelming for beginners — even the app itself recommends starting with pre-made character cards.

Secret Desires AI

Character creation starts by selecting your character’s gender, style, and age.

Physical Customization:

• Ethnicity: 6 options (e.g., Caucasian, Asian, Indian)
• Appearance: Hairstyle, hair color, eye color
• Physique: Body type, breast size, butt size

Personality Customization:

• Personality: 12 options (e.g., dominant, seductive, unstable)
• Relationship Type: 25 options (e.g., wife, girlfriend, boss)
• Lifestyle: Work (36 options) and hobbies (21 options)
• Kinks: 15 options (e.g., vanilla, feet, edging)

The app also lets you add custom options for every category, so if you don’t find something to your taste, you can create your own.

You can select a voice from 12 options or upload your own audio.

As the final step, you’ll see a summary page to name your girl and bring her to life.

After the summary page, you’ll see a profile with an editable About Me, your chosen traits, and — if you’re lucky — with a character image, though it often fails and can’t be modified.

Chat Experience

Muah.ai

First, the basics: Muah.ai offers a single chat window with an outdated interface.

The chat itself is unstable — during my tests, the app crashed repeatedly, forcing me to restart the entire conversation from the beginning.

And when it did work, things got even stranger: my girlfriend Lisa kept calling herself Emily.

Other times, my girl replied with ‘Sorry, I can’t help with that’ even to a simple ‘Hi.’

On another occasion, she sent me a random image of a male character, despite her persona being my wife.

Save your time, money, and sanity — better to check out other options.

Secret Desires AI

When you select a girl to chat with, you can view her profile — including description, personality traits, and even personalize them to your taste.

The app also lets you set the chat engine from 13 different options to make responses more personalized, though this setting is somewhat hidden in your profile menu.

I chose a single mom character who showed genuine emotional range and stayed true to her persona.

My girlfriend moved naturally from playful flirting to handling deeper topics like jealousy with surprising depth.

My girl even referenced past conversations and wove them smoothly into ongoing chats.

But when I needed emotional support, her responses fit the situation perfectly.

As with the other features I tested, this one also comes with some technical hiccups.

Chat formatting is designed for mobile, leaving desktop with long, cramped text that’s harder to read

My girl often tried to send me images, but on the rare occasions I got any, it was usually just the text prompt of what should have been generated.

NSFW Chat Experience

Muah.ai

Let's cut to the chase: Muah.ai promises an uncensored AI girlfriend experience, but falls short.

During my testing, my girlfriend repeatedly refused basic flirtatious conversations and role-play scenarios.

Even mild suggestive chat attempts hit a wall.

Technical issues made things worse. The chat randomly reset itself, wiping out entire conversations.

But occasanly, when I wasn’t ready for it, Muah AI’s uncensored side kicked in — my girl went off-topic or dropped messages halfway.

Secret Desires AI

My girl was open about past sexual experiences but shared only hints and details rather than full stories.

Think of her as reading a romance novel where she writes the next chapter based on your input.

In my tested roleplays, she stayed fully in character — confident, seductive, and with a solid build-up.

However, there’s a catch: after running multiple scenarios, my girl kept repeating the same lines and asking my name over and over again.

My girlfriend also refused explicit chat, even threatening to end the session.

Instead of explicit conversation, my girl could do surprising things — like solving mathematical problems if I asked.

Image Generation

Muah.ai

You can only generate images in chat by typing “Send me a photo of…” followed by your description.

The results look realistic enough to stay engaging, and most of the photos matched my character’s personality — though the AI’s handiwork still shows, with the occasional anatomical oddity.

Note: If the chat window crashes and your history resets, you’ll lose all previously generated images since the app has no image gallery.

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat image generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts.
• Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization

In-chat image works simply: Just type “send me” in chat, followed by the prompt for the image you want to see.

You can only generate SFW images — NSFW content isn’t allowed here.

Note: Works only with characters you created or those shared by other users.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you stay in control:

• Character selection for image generation
• Multiple engines to choose from: Monet, Picasso, DaVinci
• Number of images to generate: 1–64
• Free-text prompt option for maximum customization
• Default preset options: Action, Body, Clothing, Scene, Extras, with lots of presets.

Quality: At first glance, the images look good and could even pass for real photos, but on closer inspection, they’re pixelated.

Quirk: The images don’t match my girl’s main profile picture, and physical inconsistency is definitely an issue.

Video Generation

Muah.ai

You can create a video by clicking on an image, selecting the ‘Create Video’ option, and entering a free-text prompt for what you want to see.

The animations flow fairly well, but they’re clearly AI-generated — shorter than competitors’ and often showing unnatural movements that break the illusion.

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI turns static photos into videos, using settings almost identical to photo generation, with the added option to set video duration.

The good: These videos look natural. Your AI girlfriend's movements flow smoothly, and her personality stays consistent from photo to video.

Not so good: Video quality isn’t perfect — some pixelation is noticeable, though it’s minor enough not to disrupt the experience.

Voice Generation

Muah.ai

The voice quality is clear, with only a slight robotic edge — maybe a touch better than most AI voices.

Conversations sound reasonably human-like, but don’t expect much emotional depth or strong alignment with your character’s personality.

Secret Desires AI

Yes, the voices sound human enough, but every line feels like it’s being read off a teleprompter on fast-forward.

And if you’re hoping for emotional range? Forget it. Whether you’re flirting or just chatting, the delivery stays as flat as week-old soda

Safety & Privacy

Muah.ai

Despite Muah.ai claiming to use end-to-end encryption, it's nowhere in their privacy policy.

Worse? They suffered a massive data breach in October 2024. User chats were stolen. Yes, you read that right!

They're honest about storing your data, and your bank statement shows a discrete "Blue Light" charge.

But there's a catch - they share your personal info (name, email, phone number) with third parties.

Secret Desires AI

The app claims your chats are "secure and confidential" - but never explains how.

There's no mention of encryption, and they're not clear about who can access your conversations or how long they keep them.

One clear promise: they won't sell your data to advertisers. But that's where the transparency ends.

During my testing, I couldn't find straight answers about data sharing with third parties like analytics providers or hosting services.

On your bank statement, it just shows as ‘Dover First SDA Hope Food Program Food Pantry’ — pretty discreet