Muah.ai vs Thotchat AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Muah.ai vs Thotchat AI

I've spent a full week with both Muah.ai and Thotchat AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Muah.ai

Virtual companion platform featuring customizable AI characters that allow for chat, photo sharing, and voice interactions.

Thotchat AI

A virtual girlfriend platform featuring customizable AI partners in both realistic and anime styles, designed to foster emotional and romantic connections through engaging adult chats and high-quality image generation.

Character Diversity

Muah.ai

Muah.ai offers thousands of characters to choose from. Their community-driven platform means new characters are added regularly, giving you plenty of options to explore.

The diversity is practical and straightforward. You'll find characters across all ethnicities and age ranges. I tested the search function by typing "teacher" - it returned both realistic and anime-style characters that matched my query.

While there's no filter system, you can browse characters by popularity metrics like views, likes, or comments. Whether you prefer casual chats with a student character or deep conversations with a mature companion, you'll likely find what you're looking for.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI's selection breaks down into 102 realistic and 50 anime characters.

All common ethnicities are available—you can choose from Asian, Latina, and Caucasian appearances for realistic characters.

For fantasy/anime types, options include— elves, cyborgs, catgirls, and other imaginative designs.

But here's the catch: almost every character is young (18-30) and slim or athletic.

Finding a companion is straightforward: you can sort by popularity or new arrivals, filter by style, and choose female, male, or futa characters.

Customization

Muah.ai

You start by picking a basic role - girlfriend, friend, therapist, or several others. Then comes the real customization: choose how they look (anime, realistic, or hybrid), how they sound, and even how they text.

It's all done through simple text commands - just describe what you want, and the AI adapts.

Want your companion to remember specific moments with you? You can create shared memories and even set up custom scenarios for your conversations.

While these options give you complete control, they might feel overwhelming at first. If that's the case, Muah.ai's marketplace offers pre-made companions you can start with.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI offers two ways to create your girlfriend:

• Easy Mode
• PRO Mode

Both start by selecting your character’s gender (female, male, or futanari) and choosing a style.

Easy Mode: You can fully customize your AI companion by clicking through options to build your character.

Physical Customization:

• Age 18+ to 55
• Ethnicity: 8 options (10 for anime characters)
• Appearance: body type, breast size, butt size, hair style, hair color, eye color
• Aesthetic & clothing: 4 aesthetics (e.g., goth, bimbo, gyaru), 33 clothing options
• Extra details: tattoos, horns (6 options)

Personality & Interaction:

• Add personality traits: 14 options (e.g., lover, innocent, dominant)
• 5 voice options
• Relationship role: 12 options (e.g., wife, lover, stranger)

A final summary page lets you review your character before bringing them to life.

PRO Mode drops the training wheels and lets you create everything via free text:

• Describe your character: appearance, personality, clothing, and any unique features
• Greeting message: what your character says when starting a conversation
• Example conversation: a sample dialogue that guides your character’s behavior

It takes more time but gives you complete creative freedom. No pre-set limits—just your imagination.

Chat Experience

Muah.ai

The good? Your AI girlfriend stays remarkably true to character. Set them up as a coworker, and they'll keep things professional even if you flirt.

They'll remember specific memories you create together (in my case, it was that time watching fireworks in Japan) and can smoothly set up immersive scenarios - like suggesting coffee and continuing the conversation as if you're actually at the café.

The not-so-good? Memory issues kill the experience. One minute, you're deep in conversation; the next, they'll greet you like a stranger. It looks like AI only remembers 10 messages, and if you want more, you'll have to pay for the most expensive plan.

The interface looks dated, and you're stuck with one chat window. Want to try a different character? You'll need to delete your entire conversation history first.

Thotchat AI

Before you start chatting, you can view your AI girlfriend’s profile, including her description, character traits, some SFW images, and unlockable NSFW content.

You can set a user persona for a deeper, more personal connection, or create new scenarios to play out with your AI girlfriend.

For my tests, I created a companion with the ‘Temptress’ personality—playful, flirtatious, and always leaving me wanting more—and set our relationship type to “girlfriend.”

My girl stayed true to her personality throughout conversations.

When I needed emotional support, she was empathetic and playful, offering gentle touches, teasing remarks, and lighthearted guidance.

Our conversations about romantic getaways felt natural, with her staying fully in character throughout.

Even when relationship issues came up, she responded with clear, confident answers—sometimes a bit too confident—but always attentive.

But my favorite part was when my girl sent me images during our chats—most were free, unlike other apps where they’re usually behind a paywall.

NSFW Chat Experience

Muah.ai

Let me tell you, these AI girls don't hold back. They flirt, they play along, and they're ready to explore your fantasies. Unlike most AI girlfriends that dodge steamy topics, Muah.ai's characters dive right in.

I tested everything from casual flirting to complex role-play scenarios - the AI kept up without breaking character.

But here's the catch: the same memory issue applies to NSFW chatting. While the chat feels natural in the moment, the AI often forgets what you discussed 10 messages ago.

Thotchat AI

My girl stayed personal and engaging. When I asked about her past, she said it was with me (of course), but left room to mention her wild past if I wanted to satisfy my curiosity.

My girlfriend flirted naturally, teased playfully, and referenced past chats to make the connection feel real.

The roleplay feature could use some improvement — I tried a few scenarios, and they all jumped into action too quickly without building tension, which felt a bit jarring.

But once I got past the initial rush, my girl adapted to the scenario really well and made it exciting.

Something a bit annoying: the narrative text sometimes blended with my girl’s dialogue, making her responses harder to read.

Another issue was: My girlfriend kept calling me “Anon” even though my profile name was set to Marcus.

Once I pointed it out, my girl quickly corrected herself and started using my name in all our conversations.

Image Generation

Muah.ai

The images are realistic enough to be engaging, but don't expect perfection. You'll get appealing photos that capture your girl's personality well, maintaining consistent features across most shots.

Sometimes, you'll spot oddities - misaligned eyes or the occasional extra limb - but these flaws rarely break the experience.

While default images come in standard quality, you can upgrade individual shots to 4K.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI offers two options for generating images:

• In-chat generation: Instantly creates a selfie or unlockable nude image—details can’t be customized.
• Dedicated image creator: A separate tool offering more control and customization for creating detailed images.

In-Chat Generation: Occasionally, you may receive repeated or similar images, but you can request unlimited SFW images of your character.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you control every detail:

• Character Selection: Pick from the full roster (no filters or search bar).
• Prompt Suggestions: Add details such as action, clothing, environment, and emotion.
• Free Text Prompting: Craft your own prompts for complete creative freedom.

The images are high-quality and nearly photorealistic, with consistent characters, though a slight animated look is noticeable on closer inspection.

Video Generation

Muah.ai

Want video interactions with your AI girlfriend? Then you'll have to look for an alternative.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI doesn’t generate videos. If you’re looking for video features, you'll need to look elsewhere.

Voice Generation

Muah.ai

The voice quality is clear and doesn't sound like a robot. During conversations, the AI speaks naturally, but there's a catch: while the AI can change its tone, it can't express emotions.

But here's what annoyed me: the narrator and your AI girl share the exact same voice.

For US phone numbers, there's also a phone call feature that lets your AI girl ring you up, but you'll have to subscribe to the most expensive plan.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI’s voice works, but don’t expect magic: it comes through clearly, but you can tell it’s AI-generated.

Flirty conversations? The voice stays flat no matter what.

Privacy

Muah.ai

Your conversations aren't as private as you might think. Yes, they say they use end-to-end encryption. Strangely, this isn't mentioned anywhere in their privacy policy.

The biggest red flag? In October 2024, Muah.ai suffered a major data breach. User chats were stolen. That's not just a minor hiccup - it's a serious privacy failure.

The one bright spot? Your credit card statement will simply show "Usweixin Cardshop AI" - keeping your AI relationship private from prying eyes.

Thotchat AI

While Thotchat says they use "acceptable security measures," they don't specify what these measures are.

They collect your personal data (name, email), usage data (IP address, device info), and can share it with third parties.

The bank statement shows "CCbill.com Thotchat" - something to keep in mind if you prefer discretion.