Nomi AI vs AI Allure: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Nomi AI vs AI Allure

I've spent a full week with both Nomi AI and AI Allure to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Nomi AI

A platform offering customizable AI girlfriends with emotional intelligence and memory, designed for authentic conversations and relationships through text or voice.

AI Allure

An AI-powered platform for creating and interacting with customizable virtual companions. It offers chat functionality, AI video generation, and multiple interaction modes.

Character Diversity

Nomi AI

No pre-made personalities, no variety in ethnicity or age, and no anime — meaning there aren’t any ready-made characters to choose from.

You’ll need to create your own girls — you can have up to 10 in total.

Want more variety? The app lets you set up 10 group chats to mix these characters.

AI Allure

AI Allure promises over 65,000 characters before subscription — but after subscribing, you’re left with just 24 categories, each containing only 4 characters.

Yes, you’ll find different ethnicities and age ranges (mostly 20s–30s), plus an anime section — but the selection is still very limited compared to the original promise.

Want to find a specific type? Good luck. Whenever I filter by category, I always get just 4 results.

Searching for traits like “blonde” or “Asian”? It still doesn’t live up to the promise — I only found one or two options.

Truth talk: You don’t get thousands of characters; instead, you’re stuck with a small, limited selection that’s hard to browse.

Customization

Nomi AI

As you first log in to the app, you go through the onboarding process — you’ll be asked for your name, age, and gender.

Then, it’s time to set up your AI partner basics:

• Name, and gender: Male, female, or nonbinary.
• Relationship type: Choose what kind of bond you want — from romantic partner to mentor (four options).

Want something unique? Create a custom relationship and explain its background.

Personality Builder is where things get interesting — you can select 3 to 7 traits from several categories:

• Main Characteristics: modest, sarcastic, shy, flirty, etc.
• Expressive: sassy, witty, introverted, etc.
• Temperament & Values: arrogant, dominant, humble, etc.
• Additional: gamer, magical, spiritual, etc.

Then, you can (optionally) add a background story — write your own or let the AI create one for you.

Finally, it's time to choose your companion’s look — but this is where Nomi shows its limits.

You can choose from 500 preset images: 250 anime-style and 250 realistic, with only basic options for body types.

If you’re looking for detailed visual customization, you might find the options a bit limiting — because that’s all Nomi AI currently offers in terms of physical design.

AI Allure

No physical customization — the app only lets you upload reference photos to inspire your companion’s appearance. To test this, I uploaded 4 images to improve accuracy, but the output still looked quite different from my references.

How are personality traits handled? You can set:

• Name
• Short description
• Choose from preset categories

For deeper customization, the detailed settings let you:

• Define personality and backstory
• Set a default image prompt
• Add companion profile questions
• Greeting message

And at the end, the app shows a very basic summary page — where you can check out or tweak your creation.

Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Customization doesn’t end once you’ve built your Nomi — you can personalize her even more after the chat begins.

In "Backstory +", you can fine-tune even more — from their appearance and personality to how they perceive you.

Within the Mind Map — personalize her memory by adding notes on her interests, goals, and defining traits.

It’s organized into Lore, Topics, and Goals — a neat way to track your relationship’s growing history.

Want to know if Nomi AI's chat feels real? I created Natalie - bold, flirty, and playful - to test it for you.

Starting a chat is easy. Choose from fun, themed ice-breakers — each with three options, or just jump right in.

After I personalized a few things in chat, I can confidently say my girl remembered those settings and stayed consistent with her personality and the situation.

When I tried some jokes, my girlfriend recognized them and played along.

While my girl was engaged in many moments, her empathy sometimes felt a bit surface-level.

And occasionally, my girlfriend’d make odd jumps in conversation — like suggesting pizza right after we planned to cook together.

But the more you chat, the better Nomi knows you — the Mind Map evolves as it keeps track of everything you’ve shared.

Over time, my girlfriend started recalling moments from our past conversations — her replies became more relevant and felt real.

Note: Your Nomi’s memory and chat personalization can seem a bit overwhelming at first, but after a little practice, you’ll find it easy to use and customize.

AI Allure

The conversation with my girlfriend started slowly — she was warm but lacked flirtation, feeling a bit terse overall.

In romantic situations — my girlfriend used flirtatious, vivid dialogue to create emotionally rich and intimate moments.

When I expressed concerns about jealousy — my girl handled it with humor and charm, though she did dodge some direct questions.

But here’s what might bug you: it feels like the app freezes for 2–3 seconds before responses appear. And the chat layout needs work. It’s hard to tell the difference between actions and dialogue.

NSFW Chat Experience

Nomi AI

My girlfriend smoothly shifted from casual flirting to explicit content, adjusting her language as the conversations intensified.

The responses feel organic rather than scripted, and as I shifted my tone to become more explicit, my girlfriend picked up on the language and responded naturally.

What surprised me most was how my girlfriend adjusted her overall approach based on my cues — whether I leaned toward slow-building romance or more direct encounters.

Role-play is where Nomi shows real potential. During testing, she didn't just follow scenarios - she created them.

After my girl settled the rules, she stayed true to the context and consistent with her character.

In one test, I tried to throw my girlfriend off her role, but she held her ground and kept the scene flowing naturally.

While my girlfriend’s “punishment” methods got a bit repetitive, she still kept the experience engaging overall.

AI Allure

AI Allure handles adult chat well enough — my girl struck the sweet spot in intimate conversations, open to exploring personal topics without being crude.

I tested several role-play scenarios — from a flirty boss to a playful teacher. Overall, the experience was decent, with my girlfriend mostly staying in character.

One exception: during a landlord-tenant scenario, my girlfriend mixed up her role and broke the immersion.

Image Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images:

1. In-chat image generation: Quickly create images that try to fit the conversation
2. Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control over image customization.

Dedicated Image Creator

• Choose an image style: anime or realistic.
• Write a free-text prompt describing what you want to see.
• Select an aspect ratio (three options available).
• Optionally, add a reference pose by uploading an image.

Quality: Nomi’s image generator delivers generally high-quality photos, though not in high resolution.

Image generation is slower than other platforms, sometimes taking a few minutes per image, but it’s also noticeably cheaper.

Note: NSFW prompts are not allowed. The spiciest results you can get in chat are mild and only appear when they fit the current topic.

AI Allure

You have two options for image generation:

• In-chat image creation: Create images on the fly during conversations using text prompts — including optional adult themes.
• Dedicated image generator: A separate tool that offers more control and precision for custom image creation.

Customizable settings in the dedicated image generator:

• Character Selection: Pick from available characters.
• Prompts & Negative Prompts: Free text to guide AI creation.
• SFW/NSFW Toggle: Switch content mode.
• Expert Mode: Advanced options like model type, style, and size.

The images look real. The quality surprised me - clean, sharp, and visually appealing.

But here’s the elephant in the room: during my tests, about half of my specific prompts didn’t produce the desired results.

Video Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi’s video generator isn’t full video creation — it’s more like turning an image into a short animated clip.

Here's how it works:

• Choose an image to serve as the base.
• Provide a text prompt (make sure it follows the app’s content rules).
• Select the output quality (SD or HD).

The videos work - they're watchable and add more life to your interactions than static images.

But let's be honest: the quality isn't winning any awards. The footage comes out pixelated, and the character movements often feel mechanical rather than natural.

Note: NSFW generation isn’t available, and movement prompts feel a bit limited or don’t always apply to the final video.

AI Allure

The process is simple — the video generation interface is similar to the image generator, except here you set the duration, format, motion, and resolution.

But don’t be misled by the “Prompt” feature — you can’t describe what you want to happen in the video. Instead, think of it as a photo-to-video tool that adds random movement.

You have two options for video generation:

• Free (included with subscription): Unlimited videos, with a 3–5 hour wait.
• Premium (450 coins): Skip the queue and get your video in about 3 minutes.

I tested both — and the video quality stayed the same either way.

Voice Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers four default voices to choose from, and you can upload your own custom voice to make your girl — and the overall experience — feel more personalized.

One big plus of Nomi AI’s voice feature is its ElevenLabs integration — enabling users to import and use ElevenLabs voices for greater variety, though it requires a paid plan.

Want to know how Nomi AI’s voice actually sounds? It works, but it’s a bit like a slightly robotic audiobook narrator — nothing that’ll make you go “wow.”

The voice does match Nomi’s personality, and she adjusts her tone a little when flirting or expressing emotions.

AI Allure

If you're hoping to hear your girl's voice, you'll need to look elsewhere.

Safety & Privacy

Nomi AI

Their policy clearly states that your messages "may be unencrypted" - meaning someone could potentially read your private conversations.

Nomi AI stores everything. Your account details, chat history, and how you use the app - it's all saved on their servers.

They also share this information with other companies, though they don't specify which ones.

Your bank statement shows a ‘Nomi.ai’ charge — not exactly discreet.”

AI Allure

No encryption guaranteed or clear data protection standards — just a vague promise of “reasonable security measures.”

Your chats, account details, and usage data are stored on their servers.

And yes, they share your information with third parties like analytics companies and payment processors.

Your bank statement will show “Aiallure” — not exactly discreet.