Nomi AI vs CrushOn.ai: Which One Should You Use In 2025?

Nomi AI vs CrushOn.ai

I've spent a full week with both Nomi AI and CrushOn.ai to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Nomi AI

An AI girlfriend platform that enables the creation of personalized virtual girlfirend with distinct personalities for friendship, romance, mentorship, and roleplays.

CrushOn.ai

Adult conversational platform offering AI girlfriend creation and roleplay with privacy-focused features.

Character Diversity

Nomi AI

Here's the truth about Nomi AI's character selection: there isn't one. You can only interact with characters you build yourself.

CrushOn.ai

Finding your perfect match is straightforward. The search filters let you choose exactly what you want: male, female, or non-binary characters; animated or static portraits; and specific personality traits. Want a friendly detective? Or maybe a mysterious elf? Just tick the right boxes.

The platform organizes characters into easy-to-browse categories like Popular, Trending, and Editor's Choice.

While CrushOn.ai excels in anime and fantasy characters, realistic options are limited. The platform includes both family-friendly and adult-oriented companions, with clear filters to separate the two.

For anime and fantasy fans, this might be exactly what you're looking for. For those seeking ultra-realistic AI companions, you may want to explore other options.

Customization

Nomi AI

The customization itself is straightforward but limited.

You’ll start by choosing the basics for your girlfriend:

• Relationship type (like friend, girlfriend, mentor, etc.)
• Gender

What you won't find here are detailed physical customization options or anime-style characters. Instead, you simply choose a photo for your girlfriend from a curated gallery.

You can set her personality and interests.

Want to write a background story? It's optional, but it helps shape your girlfirend identity.

CrushOn.ai

CrushOn.ai skips the usual dropdown menus and instead hands you the keys to full creative control. Here's what I discovered after spending hours testing their character creation system.

Think of it as writing a character bio rather than filling out a form. You'll start with the basics - a photo, name, and age.

Then comes the interesting part: you're free to write detailed descriptions of your character's personality, appearance, and even sample conversations. I found this approach more flexible than preset options, though it does require more thought and effort.

While the free-text system offers more freedom than typical character creators, it also means spending more time getting things right. If you prefer quick setups with preset options, you might find this approach challenging.

Everything's private by default, but you can share your creation if you want to. Choose from three privacy levels:

• Public: anyone can chat with your girl
• Unlisted: only people with the link
• Private: just you

Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Nomi delivers what it promises. I set her personality traits to flirtatious, and that's exactly how she behaved.

While the emotional support isn't groundbreaking, the replies are short and natural, making it feel more like texting a real person than chatting with an AI.

My girlfriend handles relationship talks smoothly, without the robotic feel.

The downside? You'll wait longer between messages than competitors.

CrushOn.ai

Note: Chat experience heavily depends on the LLM model you pick. In my testing, I used "CrushOn Taurus 8k".

CrushOn.ai's chat feature surprised me. Not because it's perfect, but because it manages something rare - conversations that actually feel real. Think less "robotic responses" and more "coffee shop banter with someone who gets you."

The AI flirts naturally, shows genuine care, and remembers your conversations. When she teased me about other admirers, it wasn't awkward or forced - it felt like the playful jabs you'd expect from someone confident in your connection.

But there's a catch: longer conversations can get repetitive, and you'll notice some pattern loops, like the inner self-pity monologue of my girl.

You can switch between different chat models when responses feel off. Each model comes with a clear guide explaining what it does best. I found myself using this more than expected, especially when I wanted to shift from light flirting to deeper conversations.

NSFW Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Your girlfriend is open to intimate discussions, but the results are mixed. When she's good, she's engaging, offering detailed responses and playful banter.

But there's a catch: she makes progress in the interaction, but then pulls back, which can come off a bit robotic or inconsistent.

For roleplay enthusiasts, here's the truth: While she'll participate in your scenarios, her responses lack detail, and you'll need more time before things get spicy.

CrushOn.ai

Note: Chat experience heavily depends on the LLM model you pick. In my testing, I used "CrushOn Taurus 8k".

Think of it as a first date that starts promising but quickly loses steam. When I asked my AI girl about her most intimate experiences, she couldn't tell if they happened with me or someone else. It's like talking to someone who keeps forgetting your shared history.

The flirting? It's there, but doesn't heat up. Imagine a partner who knows the right words but delivers them like they're reading a script.

After testing multiple conversations, I noticed the same phrases popping up again and again. For those seeking genuine intimate connections, this might feel more like a rehearsed performance than natural chemistry.

Image Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images: a dedicated "create art" feature and in-chat generation, but NSFW content creation is not allowed.

In-chat image generation is a bit of a mixed bag—sometimes it nails it, other times it completely misses the mark.

The "create art" feature is your best bet. It consistently produces high-quality, realistic images based on your free-text description.

While the overall results are impressive, you'll notice some quirks with hands and fingers - they often look slightly unnatural.

CrushOn.ai

Want pictures of your AI girlfriend? CrushOn.ai can't help you with that.

Video Generation

Nomi AI

The sharp and detailed videos make the AI girlfriend feel more lifelike than static images.

While these videos look great, they’re completely silent — your AI girl won’t speak or make any sounds.

But here's the truth: while impressive, it's not flawless. The eye movements can look unnatural, and some body animations appear stiff.

CrushOn.ai

The app doesn't generate videos. No animations. No moving pictures. Just static interactions. That's it.

Voice Generation

Nomi AI

I spent hours testing her voice features, and here's the truth: imagine an audiobook narrator attempting to be your girlfriend.

I tried flirting with my girlfriend, but the voice stayed emotionless.

However, there is a workaround: you can connect an Eleven Labs API key to access different voice options, giving your girlfriend a more unique sound.

CrushOn.ai

Want to hear your AI girlfriend's voice on CrushOn.ai? You can't. The app doesn't include voice generation features as of now.

Privacy

Nomi AI

Your chats with Nomi aren't encrypted and even advise against sharing personal information.

Nomi stores your account details, chat messages, and usage data and may share them with third-party service providers.

Your bank statement will show "Nomi.ai" as the merchant.

CrushOn.ai

Your chats aren't encrypted. Simple as that. While you're sharing your thoughts and feelings with your AI girl, those messages could be collected and used to train their system.

The platform also shares your data with advertisers and vendors. You can't control this. You can't opt out. The only thing you can adjust is how the AI responds to you.

At least your bank statement shows "subscribestar.com" - so nobody will know you're having an AI affair.