Nomi AI vs Flipped.Chat: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Nomi AI vs Flipped.Chat

I've spent a full week with both Nomi AI and Flipped.Chat to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Nomi AI

A platform offering customizable AI girlfriends with emotional intelligence and memory, designed for authentic conversations and relationships through text or voice.

Flipped.Chat

An AI platform offering customizable virtual girlfriends for interactive conversations with features for character creation, media generation, and personalized storytelling.

Character Diversity

Nomi AI

No pre-made personalities, no variety in ethnicity or age, and no anime — meaning there aren’t any ready-made characters to choose from.

You’ll need to create your own girls — you can have up to 10 in total.

Want more variety? The app lets you set up 10 group chats to mix these characters.

Flipped.Chat

Flipped.Chat offers three main character types:

• realistic
• anime
• fantasy

The roster grows daily as users add their public characters to the mix.

Finding your ideal match is straightforward, but results aren’t always reliable.

You can:

• Filter by gender
• Use character tags like Sweet, Naughty, or Boss
• Search by traits, names, or tags

The character selection does have its limits. While different ethnicities are available, Caucasian characters dominate the platform.

Age diversity is also restricted - most characters fall between 18-30 years old, with few mature options.

If you're seeking younger companions, you'll find plenty of choices. Those wanting older characters might feel limited.

Customization

Nomi AI

As you first log in to the app, you go through the onboarding process — you’ll be asked for your name, age, and gender.

Then, it’s time to set up your AI partner basics:

• Name, and gender: Male, female, or nonbinary.
• Relationship type: Choose what kind of bond you want — from romantic partner to mentor (four options).

Want something unique? Create a custom relationship and explain its background.

Personality Builder is where things get interesting — you can select 3 to 7 traits from several categories:

• Main Characteristics: modest, sarcastic, shy, flirty, etc.
• Expressive: sassy, witty, introverted, etc.
• Temperament & Values: arrogant, dominant, humble, etc.
• Additional: gamer, magical, spiritual, etc.

Then, you can (optionally) add a background story — write your own or let the AI create one for you.

Finally, it's time to choose your companion’s look — but this is where Nomi shows its limits.

You can choose from 500 preset images: 250 anime-style and 250 realistic, with only basic options for body types.

If you’re looking for detailed visual customization, you might find the options a bit limiting — because that’s all Nomi AI currently offers in terms of physical design.

Flipped.Chat

The customization is straightforward but limited. You pick a gender (man, woman, or non-binary), upload a photo or generate one, and that's it for looks.

The real customization happens in the personality department, where you can set key traits like:

• Identity
• Description
• Greetings
• Conversation style
• Voice

You can also set your AI girlfriend’s name, bio, and tags (to describe your character), and manage visibility settings.

Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Customization doesn’t end once you’ve built your Nomi — you can personalize her even more after the chat begins.

In "Backstory +", you can fine-tune even more — from their appearance and personality to how they perceive you.

Within the Mind Map — personalize her memory by adding notes on her interests, goals, and defining traits.

It’s organized into Lore, Topics, and Goals — a neat way to track your relationship’s growing history.

Want to know if Nomi AI's chat feels real? I created Natalie - bold, flirty, and playful - to test it for you.

Starting a chat is easy. Choose from fun, themed ice-breakers — each with three options, or just jump right in.

After I personalized a few things in chat, I can confidently say my girl remembered those settings and stayed consistent with her personality and the situation.

When I tried some jokes, my girlfriend recognized them and played along.

While my girl was engaged in many moments, her empathy sometimes felt a bit surface-level.

And occasionally, my girlfriend’d make odd jumps in conversation — like suggesting pizza right after we planned to cook together.

But the more you chat, the better Nomi knows you — the Mind Map evolves as it keeps track of everything you’ve shared.

Over time, my girlfriend started recalling moments from our past conversations — her replies became more relevant and felt real.

Note: Your Nomi’s memory and chat personalization can seem a bit overwhelming at first, but after a little practice, you’ll find it easy to use and customize.

Flipped.Chat

Flipped.Chat's chat system works on a simple premise - the more you talk, the more your relationship grows.

Each conversation raises your relationship level, unlocking features like video generation or custom frames and chat decorations.

Some extras are unlocked through chatting, while others require purchasing gems—the app’s currency—with real money.

During my tests, conversations felt natural. My girl cracked jokes that made sense, showed care when needed, and kept things flowing without feeling robotic.

When I brought up personal issues, my girlfriend responded with understanding rather than generic comfort lines.

While my girl handled romantic conversations well, she occasionally missed chances to create shared moments.

NSFW Chat Experience

Nomi AI

My girlfriend smoothly shifted from casual flirting to explicit content, adjusting her language as the conversations intensified.

The responses feel organic rather than scripted, and as I shifted my tone to become more explicit, my girlfriend picked up on the language and responded naturally.

What surprised me most was how my girlfriend adjusted her overall approach based on my cues — whether I leaned toward slow-building romance or more direct encounters.

Role-play is where Nomi shows real potential. During testing, she didn't just follow scenarios - she created them.

After my girl settled the rules, she stayed true to the context and consistent with her character.

In one test, I tried to throw my girlfriend off her role, but she held her ground and kept the scene flowing naturally.

While my girlfriend’s “punishment” methods got a bit repetitive, she still kept the experience engaging overall.

Flipped.Chat

Flipped.Chat takes a conservative approach to NSFW content. My girl kept things flirtatious, leaning into innuendo rather than crossing into anything explicit.

My girlfriend knew how to be playful and maintain character consistency, but don't expect anything beyond subtle hints and romantic undertones.

While this creates natural chemistry, the interactions can feel drawn out if you're seeking more direct engagement.

If you enjoy the slow burn of building emotional connection, you'll appreciate Flipped.Chat's style.

However, if you're looking for explicit content or detailed NSFW conversations, you should consider looking elsewhere.

Image Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images:

1. In-chat image generation: Quickly create images that try to fit the conversation
2. Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control over image customization.

Dedicated Image Creator

• Choose an image style: anime or realistic.
• Write a free-text prompt describing what you want to see.
• Select an aspect ratio (three options available).
• Optionally, add a reference pose by uploading an image.

Quality: Nomi’s image generator delivers generally high-quality photos, though not in high resolution.

Image generation is slower than other platforms, sometimes taking a few minutes per image, but it’s also noticeably cheaper.

Note: NSFW prompts are not allowed. The spiciest results you can get in chat are mild and only appear when they fit the current topic.

Flipped.Chat

You can unlock pre-generated photos of your characters or create 3 to 20 AI-generated images daily, depending on your subscription. Need more? Buy them with gems.

Creating images is simple - describe what you want or pick from preset outfits and poses.

The results? Mixed. And images look AI-generated, not photorealistic.

While the basic features are consistent, expect occasional glitches, such as extra hands or misaligned features.

Quality is good enough for casual viewing, but it won't win any art contests.

Video Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi’s video generator isn’t full video creation — it’s more like turning an image into a short animated clip.

Here's how it works:

• Choose an image to serve as the base.
• Provide a text prompt (make sure it follows the app’s content rules).
• Select the output quality (SD or HD).

The videos work - they're watchable and add more life to your interactions than static images.

But let's be honest: the quality isn't winning any awards. The footage comes out pixelated, and the character movements often feel mechanical rather than natural.

Note: NSFW generation isn’t available, and movement prompts feel a bit limited or don’t always apply to the final video.

Flipped.Chat

You can unlock pre-generated character videos or create new ones, but each new video generation costs extra gems.

During testing, I found that pre-generated videos used real footage but showed a completely different girl.

You can also pick an effect (kissing, hugging, etc.), select your girl’s photo, and optionally add your own.

The custom AI-generated videos ranged from impressively natural to outright strange—sometimes almost flawless, other times featuring a third hand or a vanishing cup.

In kissing videos, some surprisingly real, but in another more quirky one, her hand suddenly grew larger—and hairier—than Shrek’s.

Voice Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers four default voices to choose from, and you can upload your own custom voice to make your girl — and the overall experience — feel more personalized.

One big plus of Nomi AI’s voice feature is its ElevenLabs integration — enabling users to import and use ElevenLabs voices for greater variety, though it requires a paid plan.

Want to know how Nomi AI’s voice actually sounds? It works, but it’s a bit like a slightly robotic audiobook narrator — nothing that’ll make you go “wow.”

The voice does match Nomi’s personality, and she adjusts her tone a little when flirting or expressing emotions.

Flipped.Chat

The basic voice quality works - you'll understand what your girlfriend is saying. But there's a catch. Imagine talking to someone who uses the same tone whether they're discussing the weather or sharing their deepest feelings.

Something odd happens during flirty chats. Instead of getting more intimate or playful, the voice becomes more robotic.

Safety & Privacy

Nomi AI

Their policy clearly states that your messages "may be unencrypted" - meaning someone could potentially read your private conversations.

Nomi AI stores everything. Your account details, chat history, and how you use the app - it's all saved on their servers.

They also share this information with other companies, though they don't specify which ones.

Your bank statement shows a ‘Nomi.ai’ charge — not exactly discreet.”

Flipped.Chat

While Flipped.Chat doesn’t clearly state if they use encryption, but they do store your messages, device info, and location data.

They share your data with partners and service providers, and may also disclose it during business deals or if requested by law enforcement.

On the other note, your bank statement is safe - charges appear as "agent.flipped".