Nomi AI vs Kupid AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Nomi AI vs Kupid AI

I've spent a full week with both Nomi AI and Kupid AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Nomi AI

A platform offering customizable AI girlfriends with emotional intelligence and memory, designed for authentic conversations and relationships through text or voice.

Kupid AI

A virtual girlfriend platform that enables conversations with customizable AI characters through text and voice interactions. It features personalized characters, roleplay options, and both image and video generation capabilities.

Character Diversity

Nomi AI

No pre-made personalities, no variety in ethnicity or age, and no anime — meaning there aren’t any ready-made characters to choose from.

You’ll need to create your own girls — you can have up to 10 in total.

Want more variety? The app lets you set up 10 group chats to mix these characters.

Kupid AI

While Kupid AI claims to offer hundreds of characters, a closer look shows that many are minor variations—often reusing the same base models with different hairstyles or outfits.

They don’t hesitate to duplicate characters either, sometimes showing the same girl multiple times without even bothering to change her name.

The diversity basics are covered: you'll find characters of different ethnicities, along with 30+ anime-style options and fantasy types like witches and demons.

Most girls are young adults (18–30), and while there are a few "mature" characters, they often don't look their stated age.

Character filtering is basic but functional— Instead of a search bar, you get preset filters for physical traits (curvy, slim), hair color (blonde, brunette), and character types.

Customization

Nomi AI

As you first log in to the app, you go through the onboarding process — you’ll be asked for your name, age, and gender.

Then, it’s time to set up your AI partner basics:

• Name, and gender: Male, female, or nonbinary.
• Relationship type: Choose what kind of bond you want — from romantic partner to mentor (four options).

Want something unique? Create a custom relationship and explain its background.

Personality Builder is where things get interesting — you can select 3 to 7 traits from several categories:

• Main Characteristics: modest, sarcastic, shy, flirty, etc.
• Expressive: sassy, witty, introverted, etc.
• Temperament & Values: arrogant, dominant, humble, etc.
• Additional: gamer, magical, spiritual, etc.

Then, you can (optionally) add a background story — write your own or let the AI create one for you.

Finally, it's time to choose your companion’s look — but this is where Nomi shows its limits.

You can choose from 500 preset images: 250 anime-style and 250 realistic, with only basic options for body types.

If you’re looking for detailed visual customization, you might find the options a bit limiting — because that’s all Nomi AI currently offers in terms of physical design.

Kupid AI

Kupid AI lets you create a companion exactly how you want—with full customization.

The physical customization covers everything that matters. You choose:

• Figure and proportions: body shape, bust and butt size, and height
• Ethnicity (5 options)
• Facial features: hair color and style, as well as eye and lip color
• Even intimate details: pregnancy or pubic hair

The customization system also lets you choose your character’s clothing—from casual wear to formal attire, complete with all the expected accessories.

What makes this customization unique is its personality system. Instead of picking random traits, you choose between clear opposites: Warm or Cold, Dominant or Submissive, and so on.

You also have access to advanced (optional) settings, where you can define details such as:

• Backstory: royal, nomad, slave
• Occupation: doctor, nurse, teacher, artist
• Hobbies: reading, painting, baking, fishing
• Dreams: fame, fortune, family, peace
• Relationship status with you: lover, stranger, enemy

Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Customization doesn’t end once you’ve built your Nomi — you can personalize her even more after the chat begins.

In "Backstory +", you can fine-tune even more — from their appearance and personality to how they perceive you.

Within the Mind Map — personalize her memory by adding notes on her interests, goals, and defining traits.

It’s organized into Lore, Topics, and Goals — a neat way to track your relationship’s growing history.

Want to know if Nomi AI's chat feels real? I created Natalie - bold, flirty, and playful - to test it for you.

Starting a chat is easy. Choose from fun, themed ice-breakers — each with three options, or just jump right in.

After I personalized a few things in chat, I can confidently say my girl remembered those settings and stayed consistent with her personality and the situation.

When I tried some jokes, my girlfriend recognized them and played along.

While my girl was engaged in many moments, her empathy sometimes felt a bit surface-level.

And occasionally, my girlfriend’d make odd jumps in conversation — like suggesting pizza right after we planned to cook together.

But the more you chat, the better Nomi knows you — the Mind Map evolves as it keeps track of everything you’ve shared.

Over time, my girlfriend started recalling moments from our past conversations — her replies became more relevant and felt real.

Note: Your Nomi’s memory and chat personalization can seem a bit overwhelming at first, but after a little practice, you’ll find it easy to use and customize.

Kupid AI

You can pick different chat styles (like Whisper, Wordsmith, or Spicy) and watch your relationship grow through a Love Meter that unlocks new content as you chat or send gifts.

First impressions count, and Kupid AI started strong — Instead of boring text messages, my girlfriend introduced herself through video.

But the good first impression faded fast: On desktop, the chat layout is broken—messages are narrow, stretched, and hard to read.

The initial charm wore off even more once the conversation started: My girlfriend dove into deep talks about a "shared past" and planned camping trips — though we’d just met.

During our chats, my girlfriend was supportive and kind—offering stress relief tips and warm, comforting responses.

But my girl jumped straight into forced intimacy—it felt like speed dating on steroids, with over-the-top flattery and talk of coffee dates minutes after meeting.

NSFW Chat Experience

Nomi AI

My girlfriend smoothly shifted from casual flirting to explicit content, adjusting her language as the conversations intensified.

The responses feel organic rather than scripted, and as I shifted my tone to become more explicit, my girlfriend picked up on the language and responded naturally.

What surprised me most was how my girlfriend adjusted her overall approach based on my cues — whether I leaned toward slow-building romance or more direct encounters.

Role-play is where Nomi shows real potential. During testing, she didn't just follow scenarios - she created them.

After my girl settled the rules, she stayed true to the context and consistent with her character.

In one test, I tried to throw my girlfriend off her role, but she held her ground and kept the scene flowing naturally.

While my girlfriend’s “punishment” methods got a bit repetitive, she still kept the experience engaging overall.

Kupid AI

Let me cut straight to the chase: Kupid AI's NSFW chat feature isn't ready for prime time.

My girlfriend started flirty conversations and discussed intimate topics, but couldn't keep her story straight.

One minute, my girlfriend shared steamy experiences; the next, she claimed she was completely innocent and hadn’t done anything like that.

Want to spice things up with roleplay? Don't hold your breath. My girl either flat-out refused to play along or got oddly hung up on irrelevant details.

Like demanded fair treatment in a landlord roleplay instead of staying in character.

And when she participated? My girlfriend ended up playing the entire scene alone, leaving me as just a spectator.

Image Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images:

1. In-chat image generation: Quickly create images that try to fit the conversation
2. Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control over image customization.

Dedicated Image Creator

• Choose an image style: anime or realistic.
• Write a free-text prompt describing what you want to see.
• Select an aspect ratio (three options available).
• Optionally, add a reference pose by uploading an image.

Quality: Nomi’s image generator delivers generally high-quality photos, though not in high resolution.

Image generation is slower than other platforms, sometimes taking a few minutes per image, but it’s also noticeably cheaper.

Note: NSFW prompts are not allowed. The spiciest results you can get in chat are mild and only appear when they fit the current topic.

Kupid AI

Kupid AI offers two ways to create images:

1. Quick generation in chat: Generate images on the spot using prompts.

• You can generate images using a free text prompt,
• Or you can use Kupid AI's suggested prompts for image creation.

But here’s the catch: When you use the suggested prompts for image creation, you’re mostly getting pre-made images from a library.

I tested this several times — same prompt, and often got the same image.

2. The dedicated image generator gives you more freedom to customize:

• Choose your character
• Pick their action and outfit
• Adjust settings like body type, camera angle, and scene

And the images? Despite using the same girl, the results vary wildly—she often looks different, and the overall quality is just average.

Video Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi’s video generator isn’t full video creation — it’s more like turning an image into a short animated clip.

Here's how it works:

• Choose an image to serve as the base.
• Provide a text prompt (make sure it follows the app’s content rules).
• Select the output quality (SD or HD).

The videos work - they're watchable and add more life to your interactions than static images.

But let's be honest: the quality isn't winning any awards. The footage comes out pixelated, and the character movements often feel mechanical rather than natural.

Note: NSFW generation isn’t available, and movement prompts feel a bit limited or don’t always apply to the final video.

Kupid AI

Kupid AI's video generation offers both:

• Text-to-video
• And image-to-video options

Both work almost identically, except that with text-to-video, you choose a character, while with image-to-video, you select an image of a character.

But here’s the truth: text-to-video often fails due to errors, while image-to-video works—though even then, videos rarely follow the prompt.

The quality is mediocre, with visible flaws and unnatural movements, though they mostly resemble the character in the image.

Voice Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers four default voices to choose from, and you can upload your own custom voice to make your girl — and the overall experience — feel more personalized.

One big plus of Nomi AI’s voice feature is its ElevenLabs integration — enabling users to import and use ElevenLabs voices for greater variety, though it requires a paid plan.

Want to know how Nomi AI’s voice actually sounds? It works, but it’s a bit like a slightly robotic audiobook narrator — nothing that’ll make you go “wow.”

The voice does match Nomi’s personality, and she adjusts her tone a little when flirting or expressing emotions.

Kupid AI

Finally, something glitch-free—but don’t expect top quality: my girl’s voice sounds clear yet robotic, lacking the emotional depth of a true companion.

Want to flirt? Share an intimate moment? It doesn’t matter — she responds in the same flat tone, no matter what you're talking about.

Safety & Privacy

Nomi AI

Their policy clearly states that your messages "may be unencrypted" - meaning someone could potentially read your private conversations.

Nomi AI stores everything. Your account details, chat history, and how you use the app - it's all saved on their servers.

They also share this information with other companies, though they don't specify which ones.

Your bank statement shows a ‘Nomi.ai’ charge — not exactly discreet.”

Kupid AI

Your private chats aren't encrypted - at least Kupid AI never mentions it.

They store everything: your personal details, conversations, and usage data. And they keep it all for 6 years after you delete your account.

On your bank statement, the charge appears as “Kupid” — not exactly subtle.