Nomi AI vs Ourdream AI: Which One Should You Use In 2025?

Nomi AI vs Ourdream AI

I've spent a full week with both Nomi AI and Ourdream AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Nomi AI

An AI girlfriend platform that enables the creation of personalized virtual girlfirend with distinct personalities for friendship, romance, mentorship, and roleplays.

Ourdream AI

A virtual girlfriend platform that allows users to create AI partners with advanced customizable traits, generate media, and engage in fantasy scenarios.

Character Diversity

Nomi AI

Here's the truth about Nomi AI's character selection: there isn't one. You can only interact with characters you build yourself.

Ourdream AI

The selection is extensive and continues to grow daily, as users create new characters.

The library includes both realistic and anime-style options, giving you plenty of variety to match your preferences.

Most characters are young adults in their 20s and 30s, though you'll find some outside this range too.

The app offers three character types: female, male, and trans. You can search using physical descriptions like "blonde" or "Asian," but there's no way to filter by personality traits.

Customization

Nomi AI

The customization itself is straightforward but limited.

You’ll start by choosing the basics for your girlfriend:

• Relationship type (like friend, girlfriend, mentor, etc.)
• Gender

What you won't find here are detailed physical customization options or anime-style characters. Instead, you simply choose a photo for your girlfriend from a curated gallery.

You can set her personality and interests.

Want to write a background story? It's optional, but it helps shape your girlfirend identity.

Ourdream AI

The appearance editor is solid:

• Choose between anime and realistic style
• Various ethnicities (including fantasy options)
• Age
• Adjust physical features

You can modify body type, wild ranga of hairstyles, eye colors, and voice options (10 in total) round out the fundamental customization toolkit.

Where things get interesting is in the advanced settings. You can add specific details like tattoos and piercings, but more importantly, you can shape your AI's personality.

While you're limited to single preset personalities (sweet, shy, playful, or sassy) without mixing traits, you can add some flavor by customizing their occupation and relationship role.

After you’re done, the app gives you a quick summary of your choices before locking them in.

Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Nomi delivers what it promises. I set her personality traits to flirtatious, and that's exactly how she behaved.

While the emotional support isn't groundbreaking, the replies are short and natural, making it feel more like texting a real person than chatting with an AI.

My girlfriend handles relationship talks smoothly, without the robotic feel.

The downside? You'll wait longer between messages than competitors.

Ourdream AI

Here’s the truth about the girlfriend's personality: she’s warm and engaging, but since this is an adult site, she moves into NSFW territory faster than you might expect.

The chat system gives you three main controls: lust level, response length, and memory pinning.

I tested different lust settings and found that even the middle range already feels quite flirty and suggestive.

The color-coded responses make conversations easy to follow, no squinting required.

When it comes to emotional support, she offers practical advice while staying true to her role.

During relationship talks, she maintains believable intimacy.

NSFW Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Your girlfriend is open to intimate discussions, but the results are mixed. When she's good, she's engaging, offering detailed responses and playful banter.

But there's a catch: she makes progress in the interaction, but then pulls back, which can come off a bit robotic or inconsistent.

For roleplay enthusiasts, here's the truth: While she'll participate in your scenarios, her responses lack detail, and you'll need more time before things get spicy.

Ourdream AI

My girlfriend took on a tantra teacher persona during our chats and builds conversations slowly. It remembers its role and sticks to it.

When discussing intimate preferences, it stays tasteful - think subtle hints rather than crude responses.

In another chat, my girlfriend took on the role of a charming teacher. She stayed fully in character, guiding the conversation with patience and depth.

At times, her approach is quite effective, creating more authentic-feeling interactions. Other times, you might find the pacing too slow.

Image Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images: a dedicated "create art" feature and in-chat generation, but NSFW content creation is not allowed.

In-chat image generation is a bit of a mixed bag—sometimes it nails it, other times it completely misses the mark.

The "create art" feature is your best bet. It consistently produces high-quality, realistic images based on your free-text description.

While the overall results are impressive, you'll notice some quirks with hands and fingers - they often look slightly unnatural.

Ourdream AI

The app can create high-quality, near-photorealistic images right in chat, auto-generated to match your conversation, with no manual setup.

While not perfect (I noticed occasional quirks like elf ears), the character stays consistent.

While not perfect (I noticed occasional quirks like elf ears), the character stays consistent.

There is also a custom image generation tool that lets you pick specific characters, poses, outfits, and backgrounds.

Video Generation

Nomi AI

The sharp and detailed videos make the AI girlfriend feel more lifelike than static images.

While these videos look great, they’re completely silent — your AI girl won’t speak or make any sounds.

But here's the truth: while impressive, it's not flawless. The eye movements can look unnatural, and some body animations appear stiff.

Ourdream AI

First, the good stuff: videos look crisp and professional, but you'll catch a few classic AI slip-ups.

Best part? It costs less than most competitors while delivering similar quality.

Voice Generation

Nomi AI

I spent hours testing her voice features, and here's the truth: imagine an audiobook narrator attempting to be your girlfriend.

I tried flirting with my girlfriend, but the voice stayed emotionless.

However, there is a workaround: you can connect an Eleven Labs API key to access different voice options, giving your girlfriend a more unique sound.

Ourdream AI

It works for basic chat, but don't expect those spine-tingling moments when your AI girlfriend sounds genuinely excited to talk to you.

When I tried flirting with the AI, the voice stayed flat and emotionless.

Privacy

Nomi AI

Your chats with Nomi aren't encrypted and even advise against sharing personal information.

Nomi stores your account details, chat messages, and usage data and may share them with third-party service providers.

Your bank statement will show "Nomi.ai" as the merchant.

Ourdream AI

The app collects all your chat messages, but its privacy policy doesn’t mention whether any of it is encrypted, and your data gets shared with third parties.

When you check your bank statement, you'll see "Dream Studio" - nice and discreet.