Nomi AI vs Swipey AI: Which One Should You Use In 2025?

Nomi AI vs Swipey AI

I've spent a full week with both Nomi AI and Swipey AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Nomi AI

An AI girlfriend platform that enables the creation of personalized virtual girlfirend with distinct personalities for friendship, romance, mentorship, and roleplays.

Swipey AI

An AI chat platform where users create and customize virtual companions, interacting with them through text, images, and voice notes.

Character Diversity

Nomi AI

Here's the truth about Nomi AI's character selection: there isn't one. You can only interact with characters you build yourself.

Swipey AI

Swipey AI features 241 characters—198 realistic and 43 animated.

Among the realistic options—you’ll find both AI-generated personalities and avatars inspired by verified real models, giving you a mix of fictional and real-inspired companions to chat with.

The diversity is decent but limited—you’ll mostly find White, Black, and Latina characters in their 20s and 30s.

Each character has a profile with a bio, posts, and both free and paid content, which you can buy individually or unlock entirely with a character-specific “Fun Club” membership.

The search system isn’t very useful—it only filters basic categories like 'Hot Posts' or 'Animated Babes,' with no option to search by personality traits or keywords.

There’s a social media-style feed with categories like 'Trending' and 'New Posts,' but it mainly promotes locked content and the 'Fun Club' membership.

Warning: Clicking on AI girls marked as “live” redirects you to unrelated webcam sites.

Customization

Nomi AI

The customization itself is straightforward but limited.

You’ll start by choosing the basics for your girlfriend:

• Relationship type (like friend, girlfriend, mentor, etc.)
• Gender

What you won't find here are detailed physical customization options or anime-style characters. Instead, you simply choose a photo for your girlfriend from a curated gallery.

You can set her personality and interests.

Want to write a background story? It's optional, but it helps shape your girlfirend identity.

Swipey AI

The character creation system is straightforward. You can customize:

• Style: anime or realistic
• Age: 18–40+
• Ethnicity: (e.g., Asian, Middle Eastern, white)
• Facial features: eye color, hair color, and style
• Body features: body type, breast size, butt size

The options are quite detailed, allowing for specific size adjustments across various features.

Personality customization is equally thorough.—You can select:

• Personality traits (e.g., innocent, submissive, confident)
• Profession and hobbies (e.g., lawyer, teacher, yoga, dancing)
• Relationship dynamics (e.g., girlfriend, wife, stranger)
• Voice options include standard and premium versions - the latter recorded by verified models.

Finally, you can review and tweak your choices before locking in your AI companion.

Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Nomi delivers what it promises. I set her personality traits to flirtatious, and that's exactly how she behaved.

While the emotional support isn't groundbreaking, the replies are short and natural, making it feel more like texting a real person than chatting with an AI.

My girlfriend handles relationship talks smoothly, without the robotic feel.

The downside? You'll wait longer between messages than competitors.

Swipey AI

My girl shone at playful banter—flirty, engaging, and full of the sass you’d expect from a lively text exchange.

When I needed emotional support—my girlfriend replied with warmth and attention—it felt comforting but a bit surface-level.

The truth is, my girl kept things light. Her modern, casual style didn’t quite capture the depth or romantic language you'd expect when trying to build a deeper connection.

When I brought up relationship concerns, my girl's responses leaned more toward playful charm than genuine reassurance.

Think of her like a flirty virtual stripper—great for entertainment and attention—but if you're looking for a genuine emotional connection, you might want to look elsewhere.

NSFW Chat Experience

Nomi AI

Your girlfriend is open to intimate discussions, but the results are mixed. When she's good, she's engaging, offering detailed responses and playful banter.

But there's a catch: she makes progress in the interaction, but then pulls back, which can come off a bit robotic or inconsistent.

For roleplay enthusiasts, here's the truth: While she'll participate in your scenarios, her responses lack detail, and you'll need more time before things get spicy.

Swipey AI

My girl played along with flirty chat and wasn't shy about sexuality, but sometimes she fumbled.

Based on her role, I’m supposed to be the husband, but she sometimes talked about past things she did with her husband—as if I’m not the one.

The roleplay? It’s there, but don’t expect fireworks. My girlfriend kept things dominant but pretty basic, sticking to simple teasing instead of diving deep into our fantasies.

And just when things started to get interesting, it felt like my girl hit the brakes—probably to get me to spend more coins.

Image Generation

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images: a dedicated "create art" feature and in-chat generation, but NSFW content creation is not allowed.

In-chat image generation is a bit of a mixed bag—sometimes it nails it, other times it completely misses the mark.

The "create art" feature is your best bet. It consistently produces high-quality, realistic images based on your free-text description.

While the overall results are impressive, you'll notice some quirks with hands and fingers - they often look slightly unnatural.

Swipey AI

Swipey AI lets you generate images in two ways:

• You can either ask for pictures during chat
• Use their dedicated image generator.

Want a quick image while chatting? Just ask your girl for a picture using your prompts.

How does the dedicated generator work? — Just set your options:

1. Pick your AI girlfriend
2. Choose their pose, outfit, and setting, or enter a custom prompt.
3. Select how many images to generate
4. Hit Generate

About quality: In both cases, the images are high-quality and genuinely realistic, but don’t be surprised if nudity appears—it’s always part of the content.

However, not every prompt hits the mark—sometimes the app seems to block certain prompts and doesn’t fully deliver what I wanted to see.

Image generation is costly—you can only create about 6 to 8 images per month (using your 200-coin monthly allowance), as long as you don’t spend those coins on other features.

Video Generation

Nomi AI

The sharp and detailed videos make the AI girlfriend feel more lifelike than static images.

While these videos look great, they’re completely silent — your AI girl won’t speak or make any sounds.

But here's the truth: while impressive, it's not flawless. The eye movements can look unnatural, and some body animations appear stiff.

Swipey AI

Here’s what you need to know: there’s no real video generation. Instead, the premium subscription gives you access to pre-made videos of certain characters.

Want more? Get a “Fun Club” membership to unlock NSFW videos for those specific characters.

If you want genuine video interactions, you’ll have to look elsewhere.

Voice Generation

Nomi AI

I spent hours testing her voice features, and here's the truth: imagine an audiobook narrator attempting to be your girlfriend.

I tried flirting with my girlfriend, but the voice stayed emotionless.

However, there is a workaround: you can connect an Eleven Labs API key to access different voice options, giving your girlfriend a more unique sound.

Swipey AI

My girl’s voice matched the character and sounded natural when she spoke, making conversations feel more authentic.

The flirty tone shifts smoothly during conversations, becoming playful and teasing to keep things fun and engaging.

But for some voices, the quality isn’t the best— making understanding a bit difficult.

Warning: Voice messages from AI characters based on real models cost 25 coins—about 1/8 of your monthly coins.

Privacy

Nomi AI

Your chats with Nomi aren't encrypted and even advise against sharing personal information.

Nomi stores your account details, chat messages, and usage data and may share them with third-party service providers.

Your bank statement will show "Nomi.ai" as the merchant.

Swipey AI

Swipey AI doesn’t encrypt your chats and only mentions using “appropriate security measures” without explaining what those are.

They store everything: your name, email, birthday, IP address, and every message you send to your AI companion.

What happens to your data? They won’t sell it without your permission, but they do share your information with their staff, service providers, and analytics teams.

On your bank statement, charges will show as "swipey.ai" — not very discreet.