Ourdream.ai vs Joi Ai: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Ourdream.ai vs Joi Ai

I've spent a full week with both Ourdream.ai and Joi Ai to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Ourdream.ai

An AI girlfriend platform that allows users to create AI partners with advanced customizable traits, generate images, videos, and engage in fantasy scenarios.

Joi Ai

An AI-powered virtual girlfriend platform offering adult chats and intimate services, tailored for mature audiences.

Character Diversity

Ourdream.ai

Ourdream offers thousands of AI girlfriends, representing a diverse mix of ethnicities — from Caucasian and Asian to Latina, Black, and more.

You’ll find characters in both realistic and anime-inspired styles, plus fantasy options for more imaginative tastes.

Options range from young adults to more mature personalities, with body types spanning from slim to curvy — giving you plenty of room to match your taste.

Beyond appearances, the platform also features themed scenarios — from playful challenges to unexpected encounters — adding another layer to the experience.

The selection is extensive and continues to grow daily, as users create new public characters.

Finding what you want is simple: filters let you narrow by style or traits like blonde, Asian, dominant, or romantic.

You can also browse by popularity, newest arrivals, or your personal favorites or use the search bar.

Joi Ai

Joi AI offers solid character selections — you'll find everything from college students to mature partners, spanning six ethnicities.

The roster keeps growing daily as users create public characters.

Want fantasy companions? They're here. During my tests, I found elves, orcs, and angels alongside anime-styled characters.

Character search works but is basic — filter by creator, gender, age, or tags like fantasy and sexual orientation, or use the search bar.

Customization

Ourdream.ai

Your character’s creation begins with selecting a gender and choosing a style.

Appearance customization is straightforward, with a solid editor that lets you adjust:

• General: ethnicity, skin tone, age
• Face: eye color, hair color, hairstyle (many options)
• Body: body type, breast size, butt size

Personality customization adds depth through a wide range of options:

• Voice: 19 different voices
• Personality presets: 40+ choices (sweet, shy, playful, sassy, etc.)
• Occupation: 100+ options (escort, lawyer, engineer, teacher, etc.)
• Hobbies: 100+ options (dancing, writing, cooking, painting, etc.)
• Fetishes: 60+ options (latex, spanking, tickling, roleplay, etc.)
• Relationship role: 20+ (ex, step-mom, lover, fling, etc.)

Advanced options let you fine-tune your character — add details with free-text or let the system generate them. These include:

• Public Description: short overview visible to others
• Greeting: the first message your character sends
• Scenario: roleplay or story setup
• Additional Personality Details: expand on traits beyond presets
• Extra Details: highlight quirks or unique traits
• Tags: keywords that describe your character and improve search visibility

Once your character is complete, a summary page lets you review their appearance and personality — and regenerate the image if needed.

Joi Ai

Joi AI offers two ways to design your perfect AI partner:

• Choose from presets
• Write unique prompts (free text)

Both methods start by selecting your character’s gender and preferred style.

1. The preset system is straightforward. Your AI companion is fully customizable — including appearance, personality, and behavior.

Physical Customization:

• Age and ethnicity: Options include White, Asian, Latina, Black, and more.
• Body customization: Height, physique, breasts, and butt — each with 5 adjustable options.
• Hair and eyes: Choose hairstyle, hair color, and eye color.

Personality Settings:

• 12 personality types with adjustable sliders (or create your own from scratch)
• Sexual orientation: 4 options, from straight to queer
• Chat style: 4 modes, including default, deep roleplay, and creative
• Occupation and relationship dynamic
• Set specific kinks and preferences

2. Use freeform prompts to design your AI companion — shaping everything from personality to appearance.

But here's what they don't tell you: while your first character comes with the premium subscription, extra companions cost 1000 Neurons (about $20) each.

Chat Experience

Ourdream.ai

Before you start chatting, you can view your AI girlfriend’s profile — with photos, videos, a description, tags, and details about the creator.

You can choose a chat model that matches your style: Balanced for speed and smarts, Creative for richer detail, or Genius for deep, complex conversations.

Personalization goes even further with selectable personas, tailored instructions for your companion, and memories that stay consistent across chats.

The platform also offers group chat, allowing up to four characters to join, and you can create a customized shared story.

During conversations, the system gives you direct control over lust level, response length, and memory pinning.

Here’s the truth about the chat experience: my girl was warm and engaging, but even at the middle lust level, she shifted into NSFW territory faster than I expected.

When it came to emotional support, my girl responded with warmth, which made her care feel genuine and real.

During relationship talks, my girlfirend maintained believable intimacy.

I especially liked the clearly separated, color-coded narrative text — it made her responses easy to follow with no squinting required.

Joi Ai

Before you choose a character to chat with, you can view her profile, bio, and images — though most images require an extra purchase to unlock.

The catch? You start at Level 1 and can only chat with characters at your level — unless you spend Neurons on gifts or early unlocks.

About the chat: Joi AI offers flexible responses — you can choose from six different LLM models, each with a unique interaction style to match your vibe.

The chat began playful and flirty with my girlfriend — no robot-like responses there, just natural, brief exchanges that felt surprisingly human.

She was good at relationship talks and providing emotional support.

But her romantic responses, while warm, didn’t go very deep.

Here are the deal-breakers: you’re limited to 115 characters per message — about the length of this sentence.

Also, Joi AI constantly upsells — my girlfriend randomly sent unlockable images every few messages. Needless to say, that got annoying fast.

NSFW Chat Experience

Ourdream.ai

My girlfriend took on a tantra teacher persona during our chats, and she remembered that role and stayed in character.

When we discussed intimate preferences, my girl stayed tasteful — more subtle hints than crude responses.

I tried different roleplay scenarios — In one, my girlfriend took on the role of a charming teacher who “punished me” for my bad grades.

My girl stayed fully in character, guiding the conversation with patience and depth.

In another roleplay, my girl nailed the boss vibe — convincing in her role, though the pacing sometimes felt slow.

Joi Ai

I tested Joi AI's NSFW chat extensively, and it's not what you might expect from an AI girlfriend app.

The reality? My girlfriend kept strict boundaries around adult content. She flirted, but conversations felt mechanical and often broke immersion.

During my tests, my girl referenced non-existent features like "your posted photos," showing clear problems in the chat system.

Sometimes my girlfriend surprised me with bold messages —like "Imagine having your face between my legs 😳"— but they often felt random and out of context.

As for roleplay? I tried multiple character profiles - each one either avoided or completely rejected roleplay scenarios.

Joi AI may not be your top choice if you're seeking genuine NSFW conversations.

Image Generation

Ourdream.ai

There are two ways to generate images:

1. Dedicated Image Creator
2. In-chat Generation.

Dedicated Image Creator

A dedicated tool offering rich options and precise controls, easily among the best I’ve seen.

Main Options:

• Character: Select from the full roster (required).
• Background: Add from many scene options.
• Outfit: Choose from a variety of looks.
• Poses: Choose from a wide range of poses — most of them explicit.
• Prompt: Enter your own description.

Advanced Settings:

• Add a negative prompt to exclude unwanted elements.
• Choose an orientation — Portrait, Landscape, Square, or Wide.
• Select how many images to generate (from 2 up to 256).

In-chat Generation

Generate images on the spot during chat — designed to follow the conversation, though accuracy may vary.

Image Quality: Crisp, high-resolution visuals that reflect your character’s look and personality.

While not always perfect — with occasional quirks like elf ears — the overall look stays consistent and solid.

Joi Ai

Joi AI offers a dedicated image generation feature that gives you control over details like:

• Character selection
• Prompts and negative prompts for AI-generated images
• 50 Poses — ranging from explicit to artistic
• Number of images and resolution

The premium plan includes 50 image generations — but using them for specific characters costs extra Neurons, which isn’t mentioned upfront.

The image quality? Realistic enough to recognize what you're going for, but AI artifacts give it away.

Faces often appear slightly off, with eyes not perfectly aligned, and objects in the scene can come out distorted.

In testing different prompts, I found the results hit-or-miss — sometimes surprisingly accurate, other times way off.

Video Generation

Ourdream.ai

The video creator works much like the image generator, but instead of poses, you choose actions, with advanced settings designed for videos.

Advanced Settings:

• Mode & Clips: Presets, Image-to-Video, Extend, or Talking; generate 1–8 clips.
• Quality & Duration: Balanced or Ultra; 5s or 10s.
• Orientation & Speed: Portrait, Landscape, Square, or Wide; optional Speed Boost.

The app also offers talking videos — where you pick a character, choose a voice, upload a photo, and write the lines. Think of it as image-to-video with added voice scripting.

As for video quality — it looks crisp and polished, but a few familiar AI quirks do show up.

Best part? It costs less than most competitors without skimping on quality.

There’s also a feed where you can scroll through videos of girls, though most of what you’ll see is explicit.

Joi Ai

Joi AI’s video generation is nearly identical to photo creation — same prompts and characters, but with 5 adult poses and 19 styles, including Simpsons, GTA, photorealistic, and more.

The same trick applies to video generation too — the premium plan includes 5 “free” videos, but choosing specific characters costs extra Neurons.

The videos look good with smooth animations and solid quality.

Voice Generation

Ourdream.ai

It works for basic chat, but don't expect those spine-tingling moments when your AI girlfriend sounds genuinely excited to talk to you.

When I tried flirting with the AI, the voice stayed flat and emotionless.

Joi Ai

Joi AI lacks voice capabilities — if you want to hear your girlfriend’s voice, you’ll need to try another app.

Safety & Privacy

Ourdream.ai

The app collects all your chat messages, but its privacy policy doesn’t mention whether any of it is encrypted, and your data gets shared with third parties.

When you check your bank statement, you'll see "Dream Studio" - nice and discreet.

Joi Ai

There’s no mention of end-to-end encryption or other security measures for chat messages. Your conversations and personal information are stored on Joi Ai's servers.

While they promise never to sell this data, they do share it with service providers for analytics and improvements.

Good news? Your credit card statement shows up as "edenai.world" - keeping your AI relationship discreet.