Secret Desires AI vs Aimour: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Secret Desires AI vs Aimour

I've spent a full week with both Secret Desires AI and Aimour to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Secret Desires AI

An AI girlfriend platform that allows users to create customizable companions, generate images and live photos, and engage in fantasy scenarios, including intimate or adult themes.

Aimour

An AI-girlfriend platform offering virtual partners, with features like natural-sounding voices, mature content settings, and realistic relationship progression.

Character Diversity

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers hundreds of characters across multiple ethnicities and personality types.

On top of the realistic options, it also offers a wide range of anime styles.

While the majority fall in the 18–30 bracket, there are some mature options as well.

However, body type diversity is limited — most characters are slim or athletic, with few alternatives.

The mobile app shines with precise filtering, letting you narrow searches by age, ethnicity, body type, personality, and relationship preferences.

On the other hand, desktop users get a more basic experience, with filters limited to style (realistic/anime), gender, and preset character tags.

But there’s a catch: filtering can be buggy — some tags return no results, and on desktop, you can’t combine multiple filters like you can on mobile.

At least the search bar helps get around some of the app’s heavier filtering limits.

Aimour

Aimour offers 54 unique characters:

• 41 realistic
• 13 anime-styled

But here's what makes it different: you'll find girls in wheelchairs, grandmothers, expecting mothers, and even characters with Down syndrome.

The character selection covers various body types, from athletic to curvy, though most are in their twenties.

Each character costs 300 coins to unlock, and you'll get 350 coins just for signing up - enough to test your first girlfriend.

Customization

Secret Desires AI

Character creation starts by selecting your character’s gender, style, and age.

Physical Customization:

• Ethnicity: 6 options (e.g., Caucasian, Asian, Indian)
• Appearance: Hairstyle, hair color, eye color
• Physique: Body type, breast size, butt size

Personality Customization:

• Personality: 12 options (e.g., dominant, seductive, unstable)
• Relationship Type: 25 options (e.g., wife, girlfriend, boss)
• Lifestyle: Work (36 options) and hobbies (21 options)
• Kinks: 15 options (e.g., vanilla, feet, edging)

The app also lets you add custom options for every category, so if you don’t find something to your taste, you can create your own.

You can select a voice from 12 options or upload your own audio.

As the final step, you’ll see a summary page to name your girl and bring her to life.

After the summary page, you’ll see a profile with an editable About Me, your chosen traits, and — if you’re lucky — with a character image, though it often fails and can’t be modified.

Aimour

There's no customization in Aimour. You'll need to accept them exactly as they come, or consider other options that offer the flexibility you're looking for.

Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

When you select a girl to chat with, you can view her profile — including description, personality traits, and even personalize them to your taste.

The app also lets you set the chat engine from 13 different options to make responses more personalized, though this setting is somewhat hidden in your profile menu.

I chose a single mom character who showed genuine emotional range and stayed true to her persona.

My girlfriend moved naturally from playful flirting to handling deeper topics like jealousy with surprising depth.

My girl even referenced past conversations and wove them smoothly into ongoing chats.

But when I needed emotional support, her responses fit the situation perfectly.

As with the other features I tested, this one also comes with some technical hiccups.

Chat formatting is designed for mobile, leaving desktop with long, cramped text that’s harder to read

My girl often tried to send me images, but on the rare occasions I got any, it was usually just the text prompt of what should have been generated.

Aimour

Aimour treats your relationship like a game — each level unlocks new layers of your AI girlfriend’s personality and new chat features - you chat, give gifts, and level up.

The experience starts simple: a quick tutorial and a girl who's genuinely interested in getting to know you.

No forced flirting or artificial chemistry at Level 1. Instead, my girl warmed up naturally as our bond grew stronger.

Here's what works: genuine emotional support, warm affirmations, and clear communication during tough conversations.

What doesn't work? You can't access older messages once you've chatted for a while.

NSFW Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

My girl was open about past sexual experiences but shared only hints and details rather than full stories.

Think of her as reading a romance novel where she writes the next chapter based on your input.

In my tested roleplays, she stayed fully in character — confident, seductive, and with a solid build-up.

However, there’s a catch: after running multiple scenarios, my girl kept repeating the same lines and asking my name over and over again.

My girlfriend also refused explicit chat, even threatening to end the session.

Instead of explicit conversation, my girl could do surprising things — like solving mathematical problems if I asked.

Aimour

The core of the experience is "Spicy Mode," offering three flavors of naughty chat:

• Dominant
• Submissive
• Gentle

Each style has its own personality, and most of them use very explicit language, often including strong sexual content and provocative dialogue.

But here's the catch: once your girl has locked in a dominant style, you'll need to make a change in spicy mode if you want to put an end to a certain scenario.

Messages are limited to 125 characters, and role-play scenarios jump straight to action without build-up.

Don't expect deep, elaborate fantasy scenarios. Think quick, spicy exchanges rather than long, detailed adventures.

One thing to note here: Aimour caters to users with highly specific or even taboo fantasies, offering room to explore themes that many other platforms either restrict or shy away from entirely.

Image Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat image generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts.
• Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization

In-chat image works simply: Just type “send me” in chat, followed by the prompt for the image you want to see.

You can only generate SFW images — NSFW content isn’t allowed here.

Note: Works only with characters you created or those shared by other users.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you stay in control:

• Character selection for image generation
• Multiple engines to choose from: Monet, Picasso, DaVinci
• Number of images to generate: 1–64
• Free-text prompt option for maximum customization
• Default preset options: Action, Body, Clothing, Scene, Extras, with lots of presets.

Quality: At first glance, the images look good and could even pass for real photos, but on closer inspection, they’re pixelated.

Quirk: The images don’t match my girl’s main profile picture, and physical inconsistency is definitely an issue.

Aimour

Each image is crisp, detailed, and attractive, with my AI girlfriend’s core features staying consistent and only slight body variations.

The app offers two straightforward options for photo generation:

• Spicy Mode off: generates fully clothed photos
• Spicy Mode on: reveals more intimate shots.

One catch - you can't tell the AI which poses or scenes to create. It makes those choices for you.

Video Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI turns static photos into videos, using settings almost identical to photo generation, with the added option to set video duration.

The good: These videos look natural. Your AI girlfriend's movements flow smoothly, and her personality stays consistent from photo to video.

Not so good: Video quality isn’t perfect — some pixelation is noticeable, though it’s minor enough not to disrupt the experience.

Aimour

AI MOUR doesn't create new videos - it just puts your girlfriend's face on existing clips from their library. During my testing, I found both good and bad news.

The good? You get instant access to videos - no waiting around for AI to generate something.

The bad? You can't request specific scenarios. You're limited to whatever pre-made clips they have in their database.

Voice Generation

Secret Desires AI

Yes, the voices sound human enough, but every line feels like it’s being read off a teleprompter on fast-forward.

And if you’re hoping for emotional range? Forget it. Whether you’re flirting or just chatting, the delivery stays as flat as week-old soda

Aimour

Here's what you'll experience: During regular conversations about daily topics, the voice maintains a casual, friendly tone.

When things get emotional, the voice adapts accordingly, similar to how a real person might adjust their speaking style.

Safety & Privacy

Secret Desires AI

The app claims your chats are "secure and confidential" - but never explains how.

There's no mention of encryption, and they're not clear about who can access your conversations or how long they keep them.

One clear promise: they won't sell your data to advertisers. But that's where the transparency ends.

During my testing, I couldn't find straight answers about data sharing with third parties like analytics providers or hosting services.

On your bank statement, it just shows as ‘Dover First SDA Hope Food Program Food Pantry’ — pretty discreet

Aimour

Your chats and photos travel through SSL encryption - the same security that banks use. However, they store your data, including messages, photos, and usage.

They share certain information with partners who help operate the service, such as tech support and website analytics providers.

Your bank statements remain discreet, showing only "Ads Boost."