Secret Desires AI vs DreamGF: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Secret Desires AI vs DreamGF

I've spent a full week with both Secret Desires AI and DreamGF to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Secret Desires AI

An AI girlfriend platform that allows users to create customizable companions, generate images and live photos, and engage in fantasy scenarios, including intimate or adult themes.

DreamGF

An AI girlfriend platform that enables users to create and interact with a customizable virtual girlfriend through chat, messaging, and storytelling features.

Character Diversity

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers hundreds of characters across multiple ethnicities and personality types.

On top of the realistic options, it also offers a wide range of anime styles.

While the majority fall in the 18–30 bracket, there are some mature options as well.

However, body type diversity is limited — most characters are slim or athletic, with few alternatives.

The mobile app shines with precise filtering, letting you narrow searches by age, ethnicity, body type, personality, and relationship preferences.

On the other hand, desktop users get a more basic experience, with filters limited to style (realistic/anime), gender, and preset character tags.

But there’s a catch: filtering can be buggy — some tags return no results, and on desktop, you can’t combine multiple filters like you can on mobile.

At least the search bar helps get around some of the app’s heavier filtering limits.

DreamGF

The app features a diverse range of ethnicities and age groups. Most AI girlfriends are in their 20s or 30s, though you'll find some mature options too.

The character pool keeps expanding as users create and share new characters.

DreamGF focuses on realistic designs, so don’t expect anime-styled characters — instead, you’ll find fictional characters.

You can only sort characters by "top rated" or "latest," with no filters for personality types or specific traits.

Customization

Secret Desires AI

Character creation starts by selecting your character’s gender, style, and age.

Physical Customization:

• Ethnicity: 6 options (e.g., Caucasian, Asian, Indian)
• Appearance: Hairstyle, hair color, eye color
• Physique: Body type, breast size, butt size

Personality Customization:

• Personality: 12 options (e.g., dominant, seductive, unstable)
• Relationship Type: 25 options (e.g., wife, girlfriend, boss)
• Lifestyle: Work (36 options) and hobbies (21 options)
• Kinks: 15 options (e.g., vanilla, feet, edging)

The app also lets you add custom options for every category, so if you don’t find something to your taste, you can create your own.

You can select a voice from 12 options or upload your own audio.

As the final step, you’ll see a summary page to name your girl and bring her to life.

After the summary page, you’ll see a profile with an editable About Me, your chosen traits, and — if you’re lucky — with a character image, though it often fails and can’t be modified.

DreamGF

DreamGF makes it easy to personalize everything—looks, personality, and more.

First, the physical customization.

• Ethnicities (10 options),
• Age (18 - granny),
• Adjust body features
• Relationship

You can add tattoos, choose outfits, and customize face styles and breast size. It's thorough without being overwhelming.

You can select a relationship style (casual, innocent, or nurse) and set hobbies.

Each choice affects how your AI girlfriend interacts with you.

Before finalizing, you get a preview summary - useful for making adjustments.

Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

When you select a girl to chat with, you can view her profile — including description, personality traits, and even personalize them to your taste.

The app also lets you set the chat engine from 13 different options to make responses more personalized, though this setting is somewhat hidden in your profile menu.

I chose a single mom character who showed genuine emotional range and stayed true to her persona.

My girlfriend moved naturally from playful flirting to handling deeper topics like jealousy with surprising depth.

My girl even referenced past conversations and wove them smoothly into ongoing chats.

But when I needed emotional support, her responses fit the situation perfectly.

As with the other features I tested, this one also comes with some technical hiccups.

Chat formatting is designed for mobile, leaving desktop with long, cramped text that’s harder to read

My girl often tried to send me images, but on the rare occasions I got any, it was usually just the text prompt of what should have been generated.

DreamGF

Your girlfriend is warm and stays in character, though a slight awkwardness remains.

While your girl'll support you emotionally and engage in romantic chat, her responses often lack depth.

When you discuss relationships or share intimate moments, your girlfriend responds naturally, but don’t expect the kind of deep understanding that makes you feel truly seen.

NSFW Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

My girl was open about past sexual experiences but shared only hints and details rather than full stories.

Think of her as reading a romance novel where she writes the next chapter based on your input.

In my tested roleplays, she stayed fully in character — confident, seductive, and with a solid build-up.

However, there’s a catch: after running multiple scenarios, my girl kept repeating the same lines and asking my name over and over again.

My girlfriend also refused explicit chat, even threatening to end the session.

Instead of explicit conversation, my girl could do surprising things — like solving mathematical problems if I asked.

DreamGF

Your girl'll chat with you all day, but try to spice things up, and she'll dodge faster than a cat in a roomful of rocking chairs.

Your girlfriend's responses? Short and about as passionate as a DMV waiting line.

I tried everything — romantic scenarios, playful flirting, even straight-up adult conversations — but my girlfriend still couldn’t figure out her role.

During one particularly awkward role-play attempt, she even forgot whether she was supposed to be my boss or my girlfriend.

Image Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat image generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts.
• Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization

In-chat image works simply: Just type “send me” in chat, followed by the prompt for the image you want to see.

You can only generate SFW images — NSFW content isn’t allowed here.

Note: Works only with characters you created or those shared by other users.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you stay in control:

• Character selection for image generation
• Multiple engines to choose from: Monet, Picasso, DaVinci
• Number of images to generate: 1–64
• Free-text prompt option for maximum customization
• Default preset options: Action, Body, Clothing, Scene, Extras, with lots of presets.

Quality: At first glance, the images look good and could even pass for real photos, but on closer inspection, they’re pixelated.

Quirk: The images don’t match my girl’s main profile picture, and physical inconsistency is definitely an issue.

DreamGF

DreamGF offers two ways to generate images: chat-in generation or a separate fetish image creator.

The images look real and high-quality at first glance, but there's a catch: consistency is non-existent.

Fair warning: the platform defaults to NSFW content.

Video Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI turns static photos into videos, using settings almost identical to photo generation, with the added option to set video duration.

The good: These videos look natural. Your AI girlfriend's movements flow smoothly, and her personality stays consistent from photo to video.

Not so good: Video quality isn’t perfect — some pixelation is noticeable, though it’s minor enough not to disrupt the experience.

DreamGF

If you're looking for video interactions with your AI girlfriend, you'll have to look elsewhere.

Voice Generation

Secret Desires AI

Yes, the voices sound human enough, but every line feels like it’s being read off a teleprompter on fast-forward.

And if you’re hoping for emotional range? Forget it. Whether you’re flirting or just chatting, the delivery stays as flat as week-old soda

DreamGF

The voice sounds robotic and unnatural, making every conversation feel like you're talking to a machine rather than a companion.

I tried flirting with my AI girlfriend, but her voice stayed flat and mechanical.

Safety & Privacy

Secret Desires AI

The app claims your chats are "secure and confidential" - but never explains how.

There's no mention of encryption, and they're not clear about who can access your conversations or how long they keep them.

One clear promise: they won't sell your data to advertisers. But that's where the transparency ends.

During my testing, I couldn't find straight answers about data sharing with third parties like analytics providers or hosting services.

On your bank statement, it just shows as ‘Dover First SDA Hope Food Program Food Pantry’ — pretty discreet

DreamGF

DreamGF doesn’t say if or how they encrypt your chats in their policy.

They store your profile, messages, and usage data, but only share it with third parties if you connect via Google or Patreon.

Your bank statement will only show "Dream AI" - no embarrassing app names or explanations needed.