Secret Desires AI vs Janitor AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Secret Desires AI vs Janitor AI

I've spent a full week with both Secret Desires AI and Janitor AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Secret Desires AI

An AI girlfriend platform that allows users to create customizable companions, generate images and live photos, and engage in fantasy scenarios, including intimate or adult themes.

Janitor AI

A platform for creating and chatting with custom AI characters, featuring unique personalities and natural language powered by advanced models.

Character Diversity

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers hundreds of characters across multiple ethnicities and personality types.

On top of the realistic options, it also offers a wide range of anime styles.

While the majority fall in the 18–30 bracket, there are some mature options as well.

However, body type diversity is limited — most characters are slim or athletic, with few alternatives.

The mobile app shines with precise filtering, letting you narrow searches by age, ethnicity, body type, personality, and relationship preferences.

On the other hand, desktop users get a more basic experience, with filters limited to style (realistic/anime), gender, and preset character tags.

But there’s a catch: filtering can be buggy — some tags return no results, and on desktop, you can’t combine multiple filters like you can on mobile.

At least the search bar helps get around some of the app’s heavier filtering limits.

Janitor AI

Janitor offers over 100,000 characters to choose from, mostly anime-styled. Here, you'll find a growing library of characters created by both developers and users.

Finding your ideal match is straightforward. Each character's profile card displays a short bio, along with clear tags and categories.

Before starting a conversation, you can read other users' experiences with each character - a practical way to know what you're getting into.

The app simplifies character discovery with keyword search and sorting for quick, easy matching.

You can sort by:

• Limited or All characters (include NSWF characters)
• Trending
• Most Popular
• Specific tags (like Dominant, Submissive, Anime, or Game)

During testing, these options helped quickly narrow down choices to match specific preferences.

Is Janitor right for you? Just note that anime-styled characters dominate the selection, which may or may not suit your taste.

Customization

Secret Desires AI

Character creation starts by selecting your character’s gender, style, and age.

Physical Customization:

• Ethnicity: 6 options (e.g., Caucasian, Asian, Indian)
• Appearance: Hairstyle, hair color, eye color
• Physique: Body type, breast size, butt size

Personality Customization:

• Personality: 12 options (e.g., dominant, seductive, unstable)
• Relationship Type: 25 options (e.g., wife, girlfriend, boss)
• Lifestyle: Work (36 options) and hobbies (21 options)
• Kinks: 15 options (e.g., vanilla, feet, edging)

The app also lets you add custom options for every category, so if you don’t find something to your taste, you can create your own.

You can select a voice from 12 options or upload your own audio.

As the final step, you’ll see a summary page to name your girl and bring her to life.

After the summary page, you’ll see a profile with an editable About Me, your chosen traits, and — if you’re lucky — with a character image, though it often fails and can’t be modified.

Janitor AI

Janitor's customization options are basic but functional. You can't modify physical features, but you can upload your own character image or pick from their collection.

The real customization happens through text inputs:

• You can add a chat name
• You'll write your character's bio
• Set personality
• Set initial message
• Conversation scenarios.

You can add categories for other users to better understand your character.

There's also a unique SoundCloud integration that lets your character have music preferences.

Content settings range from limited to limitless interactions.

Fair warning: "limitless" means exactly that, including explicit content and themes.

Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

When you select a girl to chat with, you can view her profile — including description, personality traits, and even personalize them to your taste.

The app also lets you set the chat engine from 13 different options to make responses more personalized, though this setting is somewhat hidden in your profile menu.

I chose a single mom character who showed genuine emotional range and stayed true to her persona.

My girlfriend moved naturally from playful flirting to handling deeper topics like jealousy with surprising depth.

My girl even referenced past conversations and wove them smoothly into ongoing chats.

But when I needed emotional support, her responses fit the situation perfectly.

As with the other features I tested, this one also comes with some technical hiccups.

Chat formatting is designed for mobile, leaving desktop with long, cramped text that’s harder to read

My girl often tried to send me images, but on the rare occasions I got any, it was usually just the text prompt of what should have been generated.

Janitor AI

You get free access to the Janitor LLM Beta model right away, with the option to connect ChatGPT, Claude, or oOther LLM models (using your own API keys).

During my test, I used the default Janitor LLM Beta model, and here are the results.

My girl felt present and caring, but her replies were slower and often felt overly long.

When I shared concerns or sought emotional support, she responded with consistent warmth and loyalty.

NSFW Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

My girl was open about past sexual experiences but shared only hints and details rather than full stories.

Think of her as reading a romance novel where she writes the next chapter based on your input.

In my tested roleplays, she stayed fully in character — confident, seductive, and with a solid build-up.

However, there’s a catch: after running multiple scenarios, my girl kept repeating the same lines and asking my name over and over again.

My girlfriend also refused explicit chat, even threatening to end the session.

Instead of explicit conversation, my girl could do surprising things — like solving mathematical problems if I asked.

Janitor AI

I chose a 'limitless' girlfriend. — The original language was more explicit, but I asked for it to be toned down so I could share it with you.

My AI girlfriend maintained detailed, engaging conversations throughout.

However, be prepared for wordy responses that sometimes break the momentum.

The roleplay quality is hit-or-miss. While most interactions show strong character commitment and creativity.

Sometimes, my girl struggled with power dynamics, so clearly defined dominant or submissive roles may be lacking.

But for general flirting and fantasy exploration, it holds its own.

Image Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat image generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts.
• Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization

In-chat image works simply: Just type “send me” in chat, followed by the prompt for the image you want to see.

You can only generate SFW images — NSFW content isn’t allowed here.

Note: Works only with characters you created or those shared by other users.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you stay in control:

• Character selection for image generation
• Multiple engines to choose from: Monet, Picasso, DaVinci
• Number of images to generate: 1–64
• Free-text prompt option for maximum customization
• Default preset options: Action, Body, Clothing, Scene, Extras, with lots of presets.

Quality: At first glance, the images look good and could even pass for real photos, but on closer inspection, they’re pixelated.

Quirk: The images don’t match my girl’s main profile picture, and physical inconsistency is definitely an issue.

Janitor AI

This experience is entirely text-based. Those who prioritize visuals may want to consider other options.

Video Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI turns static photos into videos, using settings almost identical to photo generation, with the added option to set video duration.

The good: These videos look natural. Your AI girlfriend's movements flow smoothly, and her personality stays consistent from photo to video.

Not so good: Video quality isn’t perfect — some pixelation is noticeable, though it’s minor enough not to disrupt the experience.

Janitor AI

The app doesn’t support video generation. You’ll need to look elsewhere.

Voice Generation

Secret Desires AI

Yes, the voices sound human enough, but every line feels like it’s being read off a teleprompter on fast-forward.

And if you’re hoping for emotional range? Forget it. Whether you’re flirting or just chatting, the delivery stays as flat as week-old soda

Janitor AI

If you're dreaming of voice conversations with your AI companion, you may want to consider other options.

Safety & Privacy

Secret Desires AI

The app claims your chats are "secure and confidential" - but never explains how.

There's no mention of encryption, and they're not clear about who can access your conversations or how long they keep them.

One clear promise: they won't sell your data to advertisers. But that's where the transparency ends.

During my testing, I couldn't find straight answers about data sharing with third parties like analytics providers or hosting services.

On your bank statement, it just shows as ‘Dover First SDA Hope Food Program Food Pantry’ — pretty discreet

Janitor AI

Your chats are encrypted - that's the basic security you'd expect. But Janitor AI still collects and stores your conversations. They also share your data with third parties under specific conditions according to their policy.