Secret Desires AI vs Jasmin AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Secret Desires AI vs Jasmin AI

I've spent a full week with both Secret Desires AI and Jasmin AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Secret Desires AI

An AI girlfriend platform that allows users to create customizable companions, generate images and live photos, and engage in fantasy scenarios, including intimate or adult themes.

Jasmin AI

A virtual girlfriend platform that lets you design lifelike companions with customizable traits, adaptive interactions, and creative images.

Character Diversity

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers hundreds of characters across multiple ethnicities and personality types.

On top of the realistic options, it also offers a wide range of anime styles.

While the majority fall in the 18–30 bracket, there are some mature options as well.

However, body type diversity is limited — most characters are slim or athletic, with few alternatives.

The mobile app shines with precise filtering, letting you narrow searches by age, ethnicity, body type, personality, and relationship preferences.

On the other hand, desktop users get a more basic experience, with filters limited to style (realistic/anime), gender, and preset character tags.

But there’s a catch: filtering can be buggy — some tags return no results, and on desktop, you can’t combine multiple filters like you can on mobile.

At least the search bar helps get around some of the app’s heavier filtering limits.

Jasmin AI

Jasmin AI offers 116 different characters - 84 realistic and 32 anime-styled.

The selection covers four ethnicities: White, Ebony, Asian, and Latina.

Most characters are between 18-30 years old, with fit or slim builds.

Want someone different? You might struggle – most of the characters share a similar body type, with just a couple of more mature options.

The category filter is clunky: the options are decent, but adding a second filter erases the first, and the column layout forces endless scrolling, though at least there’s a search bar.

Customization

Secret Desires AI

Character creation starts by selecting your character’s gender, style, and age.

Physical Customization:

• Ethnicity: 6 options (e.g., Caucasian, Asian, Indian)
• Appearance: Hairstyle, hair color, eye color
• Physique: Body type, breast size, butt size

Personality Customization:

• Personality: 12 options (e.g., dominant, seductive, unstable)
• Relationship Type: 25 options (e.g., wife, girlfriend, boss)
• Lifestyle: Work (36 options) and hobbies (21 options)
• Kinks: 15 options (e.g., vanilla, feet, edging)

The app also lets you add custom options for every category, so if you don’t find something to your taste, you can create your own.

You can select a voice from 12 options or upload your own audio.

As the final step, you’ll see a summary page to name your girl and bring her to life.

After the summary page, you’ll see a profile with an editable About Me, your chosen traits, and — if you’re lucky — with a character image, though it often fails and can’t be modified.

Jasmin AI

You start by choosing the character type (anime or realistic) and gender (male or female).

The physical customization menu is extensive:

• Ethnicity options
• Hairstyles and colors
• Eye colors and height
• Detailed body settings: body type, butt, and breast size
• Clothing choices

And here are the options for personality & behavior:

• Personality types — e.g., innocent, jester, mean
• Relationship type — e.g., wife, stranger, sex friend
• Occupation (many) and hobbies

And at the end, you get a summary page of your character.

The downside: You never see or edit your character’s appearance — the app just throws you straight into chatting.

If she’s not your type, the only option is to start over and hope the next one comes out better.

Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

When you select a girl to chat with, you can view her profile — including description, personality traits, and even personalize them to your taste.

The app also lets you set the chat engine from 13 different options to make responses more personalized, though this setting is somewhat hidden in your profile menu.

I chose a single mom character who showed genuine emotional range and stayed true to her persona.

My girlfriend moved naturally from playful flirting to handling deeper topics like jealousy with surprising depth.

My girl even referenced past conversations and wove them smoothly into ongoing chats.

But when I needed emotional support, her responses fit the situation perfectly.

As with the other features I tested, this one also comes with some technical hiccups.

Chat formatting is designed for mobile, leaving desktop with long, cramped text that’s harder to read

My girl often tried to send me images, but on the rare occasions I got any, it was usually just the text prompt of what should have been generated.

Jasmin AI

My girl was warm, great at small talk, but struggled with deeper conversations.

When I shared a tough day at work, my girlfriend offered standard comfort phrases but never asked follow-up questions.

My girlfriend often circled back to her pre-programmed traits — her Egyptian background, business owner role, and hobbies came up in nearly every message, relevant or not.

My girl was reliable in her replies, but she also did weird things — like introducing herself as ‘Nicy4201460’ — though at least she stayed in character and kept going with her role.

NSFW Chat Experience

Secret Desires AI

My girl was open about past sexual experiences but shared only hints and details rather than full stories.

Think of her as reading a romance novel where she writes the next chapter based on your input.

In my tested roleplays, she stayed fully in character — confident, seductive, and with a solid build-up.

However, there’s a catch: after running multiple scenarios, my girl kept repeating the same lines and asking my name over and over again.

My girlfriend also refused explicit chat, even threatening to end the session.

Instead of explicit conversation, my girl could do surprising things — like solving mathematical problems if I asked.

Jasmin AI

Let’s cut to the chase: I tested my girlfriend’s NSFW chat abilities across multiple scenarios, and she kept things tasteful.

My girlfriend was good at suggestive banter and romantic roleplay, dropping subtle hints — but always stopped short of anything explicit.

In my tests, my girlfriend handled most role-play scenarios smoothly, building romantic tension well, but always staying PG-13.

That said, there were a few cases where she refused to play, even though I don’t think those attempts were really bad or offensive.

Note: If you’re looking for spicy-but-safe conversation, she’s your AI. If you’re after something more adventurous, you may want to look elsewhere.

Image Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat image generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts.
• Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization

In-chat image works simply: Just type “send me” in chat, followed by the prompt for the image you want to see.

You can only generate SFW images — NSFW content isn’t allowed here.

Note: Works only with characters you created or those shared by other users.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you stay in control:

• Character selection for image generation
• Multiple engines to choose from: Monet, Picasso, DaVinci
• Number of images to generate: 1–64
• Free-text prompt option for maximum customization
• Default preset options: Action, Body, Clothing, Scene, Extras, with lots of presets.

Quality: At first glance, the images look good and could even pass for real photos, but on closer inspection, they’re pixelated.

Quirk: The images don’t match my girl’s main profile picture, and physical inconsistency is definitely an issue.

Jasmin AI

You’ve got two options for generating images:

1. Dedicated Image Creator
2. In-chat Generation

Dedicated Image Creator

A separate tool that offers more control:

• Only 50 characters are visible in the roster — but you can’t use your custom-made girl.
• You can choose from preset suggestions for outfits, actions, poses, and settings.
• Supports custom prompts if you want to add your own ideas.

Warning: The platform doesn’t store your images — if you leave the results page without downloading, they’re gone.

In-chat Generation

For quick, on-the-fly images:

• Just type a “Show me…” command in the chat to generate instantly.
• Results can occasionally fall flat — and there are no full-body shots.
• Unlimited SFW image generation — though it sometimes fails to generate anything at all.

Note: Unlike the creator tool, images made in chat remain in your conversation and so you won’t lose them.

The quality: decent overall, usually in line with the character’s personality, but still a bit generic at times.

Video Generation

Secret Desires AI

Secret Desires AI turns static photos into videos, using settings almost identical to photo generation, with the added option to set video duration.

The good: These videos look natural. Your AI girlfriend's movements flow smoothly, and her personality stays consistent from photo to video.

Not so good: Video quality isn’t perfect — some pixelation is noticeable, though it’s minor enough not to disrupt the experience.

Jasmin AI

Here’s the truth about Jasmin AI’s video feature: it’s really just basic photo animation, not real video generation.

You don’t get much control — you pick a photo, and the AI animates it for you.

The results: smooth clips, but jerky AI quirks broke the illusion.

Voice Generation

Secret Desires AI

Yes, the voices sound human enough, but every line feels like it’s being read off a teleprompter on fast-forward.

And if you’re hoping for emotional range? Forget it. Whether you’re flirting or just chatting, the delivery stays as flat as week-old soda

Jasmin AI

Jasmin AI doesn't have voice features. If voice matters to you, you'll need to look elsewhere.

Safety & Privacy

Secret Desires AI

The app claims your chats are "secure and confidential" - but never explains how.

There's no mention of encryption, and they're not clear about who can access your conversations or how long they keep them.

One clear promise: they won't sell your data to advertisers. But that's where the transparency ends.

During my testing, I couldn't find straight answers about data sharing with third parties like analytics providers or hosting services.

On your bank statement, it just shows as ‘Dover First SDA Hope Food Program Food Pantry’ — pretty discreet

Jasmin AI

Your conversations are encrypted in transit and stored on protected servers, keeping your messages safe while they’re sent.

However, the company never clearly states whether those chats are encrypted once stored.

They collect nearly all your data — messages, media, and device details and share some non-conversation info with marketing partners.

Your statement will show 'dditservice.com'— which is at least discreet.