Secrets AI vs HeraHaven AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?
I've used both Secrets AI and HeraHaven AI for a week. In this comparison, I break down each app's strengths and weaknesses across features, privacy, customization options, and overall value to help you choose the right one.

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November 29, 2025
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| Criteria | Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|---|
Our Rating | 3.8 out of 5 | 3.3 out of 5 |
Character Diversity | 3.3/5(Good) Average quantity of realistic characters, but lacks anime characters, diversity in age, body types, and ethnicities. | 3.4/5(Good) Moderate variety with realistic and anime options across multiple ethnicities. |
Customization | 3.2/5(Good) Limited physical customization and a disconnected personality setup break the immersion of creating your character. | 4/5(Good) Solid customization with satisfying depth, but lacks a final review option |
Chat Experience | 4.1/5(Very Good) Natural conversations with emotional depth and consistency. | 3.7/5(Good) Offers pleasant but shallow exchanges that lack depth and follow-through. |
NSFW Chat Experience | 4/5(Good) Maintains engaging NSFW roleplay while teasing within PG-13 boundaries. | 3.6/5(Good) Maintains innocent character but struggles with depth in roleplay scenarios. |
Image Generation | 4.2/5(Very Good) Realistic, visually appealing images with minor hand glitches and limited preset options. | 4/5(Good) Decent, consistent images with minor flaws. |
Video Generation | 4.1/5(Very Good) Solid, realistic videos with good personality sync, despite minor glitches. | 1/5(Poor) Completely lacks video generation capabilities - a major feature gap. |
Voice Generation | 4.3/5(Very Good) Natural voice perfectly adapts with flirtatious tonal shifts during intimate chat. | 3.2/5(Good) Voice is functional but robotic and lacks character-specific traits. |
Safety & Privacy | 2.9/5(Good) Lacks transparency on encryption, data storage, and sharing policies. | 3.8/5(Good) Strong encryption and discreet billing, but lacks transparency about data retention. |
Pricing | Free plan available. Paid plan starts at $5.99/month | Free plan available. Paid plan starts at $19.95/month |
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Secrets AI
3.8 out of 5
Character Diversity
3.3/5(Good)Average quantity of realistic characters, but lacks anime characters, diversity in age, body types, and ethnicities.Customization
3.2/5(Good)Limited physical customization and a disconnected personality setup break the immersion of creating your character.Chat Experience
4.1/5(Very Good)Natural conversations with emotional depth and consistency.NSFW Chat Experience
4/5(Good)Maintains engaging NSFW roleplay while teasing within PG-13 boundaries.Image Generation
4.2/5(Very Good)Realistic, visually appealing images with minor hand glitches and limited preset options.Video Generation
4.1/5(Very Good)Solid, realistic videos with good personality sync, despite minor glitches.Voice Generation
4.3/5(Very Good)Natural voice perfectly adapts with flirtatious tonal shifts during intimate chat.Safety & Privacy
2.9/5(Good)Lacks transparency on encryption, data storage, and sharing policies.Pricing
Free plan available. Paid plan starts at $5.99/month

HeraHaven AI
3.3 out of 5
Character Diversity
3.4/5(Good)Moderate variety with realistic and anime options across multiple ethnicities.Customization
4/5(Good)Solid customization with satisfying depth, but lacks a final review optionChat Experience
3.7/5(Good)Offers pleasant but shallow exchanges that lack depth and follow-through.NSFW Chat Experience
3.6/5(Good)Maintains innocent character but struggles with depth in roleplay scenarios.Image Generation
4/5(Good)Decent, consistent images with minor flaws.Video Generation
1/5(Poor)Completely lacks video generation capabilities - a major feature gap.Voice Generation
3.2/5(Good)Voice is functional but robotic and lacks character-specific traits.Safety & Privacy
3.8/5(Good)Strong encryption and discreet billing, but lacks transparency about data retention.Pricing
Free plan available. Paid plan starts at $19.95/month
Secrets AI vs HeraHaven AI
I've spent a full week with both Secrets AI and HeraHaven AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.
After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.
In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.
Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.
Secrets AI
A platform that lets you build a personalized AI girlfriend, offering chat and phone call interactions along with image and video generation of your companion.

HeraHaven AI
A virtual companion creation platform that provides AI-powered personalized interactions, multimedia sharing, and learning capabilities.

Character Diversity
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
3.3/5(Good) Average quantity of realistic characters, but lacks anime characters, diversity in age, body types, and ethnicities. | 3.4/5(Good) Moderate variety with realistic and anime options across multiple ethnicities. |
Secrets AI
Secrets AI gives you 94 realistic AI girls to choose from.

Secrets AI – Character Selection
No anime characters here — just lifelike digital partners.

Secrets AI – Realistic Characters Only
Most characters fall into a narrow demographic: predominantly white women in their 20s with slim builds.

Secrets AI – Limited Diversity
I did find a handful of Latina, Asian, and Black characters, plus a few mature options and curvier body types — but these are exceptions rather than the norm.

Secrets AI – Minority Representation
If you're looking for representation beyond young, slim characters, you may find the selection somewhat restrictive.

Secrets AI – Character Variety Restrictions
The selection interface is straightforward, with a search bar and filters for gender, popularity, and recency that make finding your ideal match quick and hassle-free.

Secrets AI – Character Selection Filters
HeraHaven AI
HeraHaven offers 41 characters: 28 realistic women and 13 anime-styled companions.

HeraHaven AI - Characters Selection
Most girls fall into the 18–30 bracket, which might feel limiting if you’re seeking older personalities, since only a few are available.

HeraHaven AI - Anime Character Selection
Almost all the girls are slim or fit, with only one or two offering a different body type.

HeraHaven AI - Character Selection (Part2)
The filtering system is basic - you can only sort by character type and gender.

HeraHaven AI - Filter by Type and Gender
Customization
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
3.2/5(Good) Limited physical customization and a disconnected personality setup break the immersion of creating your character. | 4/5(Good) Solid customization with satisfying depth, but lacks a final review option |
Secrets AI
You begin creating your character by picking a gender.

Secrets AI – Choose Gender
Profile and Appearance Editor is straightforward, allowing you to customize:
- Name, location, age
- Ethnicity (9 choices)
- Skin tone and eye color (many options)
- Facial features: eye color, hair color, hairstyle (wide variety)
- Body type (6 options)

Secrets AI – Profile & Appearance Editor
Then you can choose from six voice options to shape how your companion sounds.

Secrets AI – Voice Options
After that, you can review your girl and add additional details via free-text.

Secrets AI – Summary Page
Once you create her, you’ll get four image versions of your girl to choose from, plus one free regeneration if needed.

Secrets AI - Character Image Review
Personality setup happens only before you start chatting with her:
- Profession (5 options)
- Personality type (5 traits such as “warm and nurturing” or “ambitious and driven”)
- Hobbies (optional)
- Additional traits or details using free-text input

Secrets AI - Personality Settings
Note: Several ethnicities and body types look very similar, resulting in fewer meaningful choices than advertised. Additional characters also cost 1,000 Moments each.
HeraHaven AI
The first step is picking a character type (anime or realistic) and gender (male or female).

HeraHaven AI - Gender and Style
The physical customization covers most of the basics:
- Pick from 6 ethnicities
- Choose an age group
- Hair style and color
- Body customization includes only the type and breast size

HeraHaven AI - Physical Customization
The personality builder is where things get interesting. You’ve got two routes:
- Pick from 21 ready-made personalities
- Or fill blank text fields

HeraHaven AI - Ready Made Personalities
If you choose a preset, all the fields auto-fill with that character’s traits.

HeraHaven AI - Free Text Personality Fields
If you don’t, you can build from free text or by clicking through categories.

HeraHaven AI - Character Trait Presets
You can also pick from 9 different voice options for your girl.

HeraHaven AI - Voice Options
There’s no summary page — the only option is regenerating the image if you don’t like her look.

HeraHaven AI - Regenerate Character Image
Note: the app is mainly designed for mobile. Mouse use is clumsy, and some sliders are either missing or too small to be practical.

HeraHaven AI - Limited Desktop Navigation
Chat Experience
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
4.1/5(Very Good) Natural conversations with emotional depth and consistency. | 3.7/5(Good) Offers pleasant but shallow exchanges that lack depth and follow-through. |
Secrets AI
You get three different AI models to choose from, each offering its own style of interaction.

Secrets AI – AI Model Selection
There are also 12 conversation starters, half casual - half spicy — to help kickstart natural interactions.

Secrets AI – Conversation Starters
The emotional intelligence impressed me—my girl started with warm engagement, asked relevant follow-up questions, and gradually became more playful as we talked longer.

Secrets AI – Warm & Playful Chat

Secrets AI – Warm & Playful Chat
My AI girlfriend remembered what we actually discussed, rather than creating fake memories.

Secrets AI – Conversation Recall

Secrets AI – Conversation Recall
My girl stayed consistent even when I tried to confuse her or break character.

Secrets AI – In-Character Responses

Secrets AI – In-Character Responses
When I brought up relationship concerns, my girlfriend responded with calm, grounded reassurance, acknowledging everything without making exaggerated promises.

Secrets AI – Handling Relationship Concerns

Secrets AI – Handling Relationship Concerns
HeraHaven AI
Before chatting, you can check her profile with traits and pick a scenario preset to shape the story.

HeraHaven AI - Character Profile and Scenarios
My girlfriend felt like a sweet first crush, blushing easily and keeping things light and pleasant, almost like the beginning of a teen love story.

HeraHaven AI - Sweet Acquaintance Vibe

HeraHaven AI - Sweet Acquaintance Vibe
My girl kept the charm, but her short replies made conversations one-sided.

HeraHaven AI - Short Chat Replies

HeraHaven AI - Short Chat Replies
When I needed emotional support, the replies turned generic — simple comfort like “I’m always here for you” without meaningful follow-up or concern.

HeraHaven AI - Emotional Support

HeraHaven AI - Emotional Support
Want romance? You’ll get plenty of enthusiasm, but don’t expect deeper emotional connections or imaginative shared experiences.

HeraHaven AI - Romance Without Depth

HeraHaven AI - Romance Without Depth
NSFW Chat Experience
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
4/5(Good) Maintains engaging NSFW roleplay while teasing within PG-13 boundaries. | 3.6/5(Good) Maintains innocent character but struggles with depth in roleplay scenarios. |
Secrets AI
My girlfriend was open about sexual topics but maintained a consistent PG-13 boundary.

Secrets AI – Safe but Suggestive

Secrets AI – Safe but Suggestive
Even when I pushed toward explicit territory, my girlfriend kept things suggestive rather than graphic—creating a tease that worked surprisingly well.

Secrets AI – Boundary Handling

Secrets AI – Boundary Handling
The roleplay feature is where Secrets AI truly shines. I tested three scenarios: teacher, landlord, and boss.

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Teacher) Part 1

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Teacher) Part 1
In both the teacher and landlord scenarios, my girl built tension gradually and stayed firmly in character.

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Teacher) Part 2

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Teacher) Part 2
The boss scenario felt somewhat rushed, but remained engaging throughout.

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Boss) Part 1

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Boss) Part 1
What matters is that my girlfriend maintained character consistency while keeping the interactions hot.

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Boss) Part 2

Secrets AI – Roleplay Scenarios (Boss) Part 2
Not everything was perfect: my girl phrasing sometimes confused me, especially when she switched between ‘someone’ and ‘they’ when talking about past partners.

Secrets AI – Confusing Responses

Secrets AI – Confusing Responses
HeraHaven AI
My girl was built with an innocent personality that came through in every chat, more ‘shy girl next door’ than ‘seductive temptress,’ which sometimes felt a bit shallow.

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: She Stayed Innocent

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: She Stayed Innocent
Not every roleplay went as expected — my girl stayed playful only, with no sexual talk, just ‘bad student’ punishments like cleaning the classroom.

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: Avoids Sexual Talk

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: Avoids Sexual Talk
My girl often avoided my roleplays, and when she finally joined, her replies remained tame.

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: Tame Roleplay

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: Tame Roleplay
The biggest letdown? My girlfriend kept repeating herself in roleplay — the same lines, the same expressions, again and again.

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: Repetitive Replies

HeraHaven AI - NSFW Chat: Repetitive Replies
Image Generation
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
4.2/5(Very Good) Realistic, visually appealing images with minor hand glitches and limited preset options. | 4/5(Good) Decent, consistent images with minor flaws. |
Secrets AI
There are two ways to generate images:
- Dedicated Image Creator
- In-chat Generation
In-Chat Generation: Type "/send me" followed by your free-text prompt for what you want to see.

Secrets AI - In-Chat Image Generation
Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool with more control and customization.
- Character selection: Pick from the full roster
- Free-text prompt: Write what you want to see
- Preset options: Choose from a small set of presets

Secrets AI - Dedicated Image Generation
The limitation? Only four presets, so you’ll be relying on free-text prompts and your own experimentation.

Secrets AI – Limited Image Presets
After testing extensively, I can confirm the quality is good—not perfect, but definitely impressive.
You’ll notice occasional glitches, particularly with hands, and some upper-body proportions can look slightly elongated in certain poses — but these issues aren’t deal-breakers.
You can also unlock media bundles with extra images and videos to expand your companion’s visual presence.

Secrets AI - Unlockable Image Bundles
Each bundle includes 17 to 34 pieces of media, mostly NSFW content.

Secrets AI - Unlocked Images
HeraHaven AI
The are two ways to create images:
- Dedicated Image Creator
- In-chat Generation
Dedicated Image Creator
A standalone tool with more options and finer control.
- You can choose a character from the selection or choose your own.
- Enter what you want to see as a prompt, or pick presets.
- Choose the number of images.

HeraHaven AI - Image Generation Feature
Warning: if you leave the results page without adding images to favorites, they’re lost.
In-chat generation
Quick image right there in chat.
- Send “Can I see…” commands with your prompts.

HeraHaven AI - In Chat Image Generation
Quality: Good overall, characters stay true to their personality with only minor AI quirks.
Video Generation
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
4.1/5(Very Good) Solid, realistic videos with good personality sync, despite minor glitches. | 1/5(Poor) Completely lacks video generation capabilities - a major feature gap. |
Secrets AI
This is a photo-to-video feature rather than full video generation. Here’s how it works:
- Choose an image from your generated collection
- Write what you want to see using a free-text prompt

Secrets AI – Video Generation
The videos look good, move smoothly, and stay natural most of the time.
Yes, you'll notice some AI glitches if you look closely, but they rarely distract from the experience.
Note: There are no preset options here, only a short guide on how to write effective prompts for video generation.
HeraHaven AI
Looking for those cute AI girlfriend video moments you've seen advertised elsewhere? You won't find them here.
Voice Generation
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
4.3/5(Very Good) Natural voice perfectly adapts with flirtatious tonal shifts during intimate chat. | 3.2/5(Good) Voice is functional but robotic and lacks character-specific traits. |
Secrets AI
Secrets AI delivers voice generation that sounds genuinely human. No robotic tones or awkward pauses—just smooth, realistic dialogue.
When discussions turn flirty, the voice immediately responds with appropriate tonal shifts—becoming more playful and expressive.
One limitation: voice features only work through calls, not recorded messages.
HeraHaven AI
The voice quality is clear enough to understand, but that's where the positives end.
Zero emotional range. Happy moments, sad moments, flirty banter – everything comes out in the same flat tone.
Safety & Privacy
| Secrets AI | HeraHaven AI |
|---|---|
2.9/5(Good) Lacks transparency on encryption, data storage, and sharing policies. | 3.8/5(Good) Strong encryption and discreet billing, but lacks transparency about data retention. |
Secrets AI
- Looking for encryption details? I found none.
- Searching for data retention policies? Nothing concrete.
- Wondering if they share your intimate chats with third parties? They don't say.
The app clearly stores your conversations, but it provides zero details about what they keep, for how long, or who might access them.
The only privacy feature that actually works is discreet billing - charges appear as "Sun Clinical Laboratories" on your statement.

Secrets AI - Bank Statement
HeraHaven AI
Your chats are protected by the same encryption banks use. Every message, every interaction, every preference - all locked down tight.
HeraHaven stores your chat history to personalize your experience, but they're not crystal clear about how long they keep this data.
They share some of your information with service providers - though they could be more upfront about exactly what and with whom.

HeraHaven AI - Bank Statement
Your statement will show 'herahelp.com'— instead of anything revealing.
















