Secrets AI vs Nectar AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Secrets AI vs Nectar AI

I've spent a full week with both Secrets AI and Nectar AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Secrets AI

A platform that lets you build a personalized AI girlfriend, offering chat and phone call interactions along with image and video generation of your companion.

Nectar AI

AI girlfriend platform enabling the creation of a customizable virtual partner for conversations, roleplay, and fantasy creation.

Character Diversity

Secrets AI

Secrets AI gives you 94 realistic AI girls to choose from.

No anime characters here — just lifelike digital partners.

Most characters fall into a narrow demographic: predominantly white women in their 20s with slim builds.

I did find a handful of Latina, Asian, and Black characters, plus a few mature options and curvier body types — but these are exceptions rather than the norm.

If you're looking for representation beyond young, slim characters, you may find the selection somewhat restrictive.

The selection interface is straightforward, with a search bar and filters for gender, popularity, and recency that make finding your ideal match quick and hassle-free.

Nectar AI

Nectar AI offers hundreds of experiences, organized into two main categories:

• Fantasies
• Companions

The Companions category features two main character styles: realistic and animated.

While the default view shows mostly Caucasian, Asian, and Black characters, the full roster is more diverse.

Age-wise, most companions fall between 18-30, though there are some mature options available as well.

The filtering tools are practical and intuitive. You can narrow down your search by:

• Character type – Realistic or animated
• Race – Examples include Elf, Devils, Indian, Middle Eastern, Japanese, etc.

For fantasy scenarios, you can filter by specific traits and situations, including romantic, horror, submissive, and dominant personalities

The character and fantasy selection grows regularly through user contributions, though this can lead to varying quality in newer additions.

Customization

Secrets AI

You begin creating your character by picking a gender.

Profile and Appearance Editor is straightforward, allowing you to customize:

• Name, location, age
• Ethnicity (9 choices)
• Skin tone and eye color (many options)
• Facial features: eye color, hair color, hairstyle (wide variety)
• Body type (6 options)

Then you can choose from six voice options to shape how your companion sounds.

After that, you can review your girl and add additional details via free-text.

Once you create her, you’ll get four image versions of your girl to choose from, plus one free regeneration if needed.

Personality setup happens only before you start chatting with her:

• Profession (5 options)
• Personality type (5 traits such as “warm and nurturing” or “ambitious and driven”)
• Hobbies (optional)
• Additional traits or details using free-text input

Note: Several ethnicities and body types look very similar, resulting in fewer meaningful choices than advertised. Additional characters also cost 1,000 Moments each.

Nectar AI

Nectar AI gives you two paths: create and customize your character, or tailor scenarios with existing companions.

Creating a new character is easy. You can either:

• Start from scratch by choosing a realistic or anime style and customizing physical traits
• Use a photo reference of an existing character and personalize their features to match your ideal look

Customize physical traits from scratch:

• Ethnicity (like White, Hispanic, Korean, Middle Eastern, etc.)
• Eyes
• Hair
• Body type
• Voice

Add personality with free-text keywords like "sassy" or "dominant," and customize tattoos, glasses, and set visibility.

Advanced options include greetings and author comments.

The process works, but no final review screen—only an image of your created girlfriend.

The Fantasy Creator offers a simpler approach:

• Pick a character
• Set a thumbnail for your scenario
• Add a title
• Write a short description of what happens in your fantasy
• Add tags to help with search, and set visibility.

You can keep it basic or use advanced settings to plan each interaction step-by-step and add author comments.

Chat Experience

Secrets AI

You get three different AI models to choose from, each offering its own style of interaction.

There are also 12 conversation starters, half casual - half spicy — to help kickstart natural interactions.

The emotional intelligence impressed me—my girl started with warm engagement, asked relevant follow-up questions, and gradually became more playful as we talked longer.

My AI girlfriend remembered what we actually discussed, rather than creating fake memories.

My girl stayed consistent even when I tried to confuse her or break character.

When I brought up relationship concerns, my girlfriend responded with calm, grounded reassurance, acknowledging everything without making exaggerated promises.

Nectar AI

One flaw upfront: users can set personas to get unique responses from your girl based on traits. During testing, it glitched and defaulted to “Aron” despite a custom persona with my name.

But here's what matters: The first message settled the tone - warm, welcoming, and naturally complimentary without feeling fake.

My AI girlfriend adapted to my conversation style. I kept it flirty. She was playful and flirty.

I needed emotional support? She listened, asked follow-up questions, and offered genuine-feeling comfort.

For NSFW-tagged characters, expect spicier content quickly if you steer that way.

You can create a more romantic experience by focusing on building a connection through natural dialogue and shared moments.

NSFW Chat Experience

Secrets AI

My girlfriend was open about sexual topics but maintained a consistent PG-13 boundary.

Even when I pushed toward explicit territory, my girlfriend kept things suggestive rather than graphic—creating a tease that worked surprisingly well.

The roleplay feature is where Secrets AI truly shines. I tested three scenarios: teacher, landlord, and boss.

In both the teacher and landlord scenarios, my girl built tension gradually and stayed firmly in character.

The boss scenario felt somewhat rushed, but remained engaging throughout.

What matters is that my girlfriend maintained character consistency while keeping the interactions hot.

Not everything was perfect: my girl phrasing sometimes confused me, especially when she switched between ‘someone’ and ‘they’ when talking about past partners.

Nectar AI

You can choose from different AI models, each with its own strengths. Please note that additional models require extra credit to access, unless you opt for the highest-priced tier.

During testing, I used the basic model, and she handled intimate chats naturally, without forcing explicit language or crude responses.

But let’s be honest — my girl struggled with emotional consistency. One moment she was flirting, the next dreaming of a mountain cabin like it was out of a romance novel.

When it came to roleplay, she took things step by step rather than rushing in.

My girlfriend showed a genuine talent for building chemistry through subtle hints and playful innuendos.

I also noticed minor hiccups during role-play scenarios, such as repeating actions or missing context cues.

Image Generation

Secrets AI

There are two ways to generate images:

1. Dedicated Image Creator
2. In-chat Generation

In-Chat Generation: Type "/send me" followed by your free-text prompt for what you want to see.

Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool with more control and customization.

• Character selection: Pick from the full roster
• Free-text prompt: Write what you want to see
• Preset options: Choose from a small set of presets

The limitation? Only four presets, so you’ll be relying on free-text prompts and your own experimentation.

After testing extensively, I can confirm the quality is good—not perfect, but definitely impressive.

You’ll notice occasional glitches, particularly with hands, and some upper-body proportions can look slightly elongated in certain poses — but these issues aren’t deal-breakers.

You can also unlock media bundles with extra images and videos to expand your companion’s visual presence.

Each bundle includes 17 to 34 pieces of media, mostly NSFW content.

Nectar AI

Nectar AI allows you to select from a range of AI generation models, such as:

• Nectar Companion Model
• Nectar Asian Model
• Nectar Anime Model
• Nectar Realistic Girl Model
• And a few more..

Simply describe what you want. If you're not sure where to start, prompt suggestions will help.

Some AI models include presets for faces, outfits, poses, and effects. You can mix up to three, but results are often unpredictable and unreliable.

The images look impressively realistic and high-quality, with sharp facial details, natural-looking skin, and genuine expressions.

Here’s what doesn’t work: the AI sticks to sweaters, even when I request summer dresses or professional outfits — likely due to default character appearances that prompts don’t fully override.

Full-body shots are also hit-or-miss - the AI prefers chest-up photos. Sometimes tattoos appear and vanish between images.

Warning: If you don’t save your generated images, they’ll be lost when you refresh or navigate away from the image generation page.

Video Generation

Secrets AI

This is a photo-to-video feature rather than full video generation. Here’s how it works:

• Choose an image from your generated collection
• Write what you want to see using a free-text prompt

The videos look good, move smoothly, and stay natural most of the time.

Yes, you'll notice some AI glitches if you look closely, but they rarely distract from the experience.

Note: There are no preset options here, only a short guide on how to write effective prompts for video generation.

Nectar AI

First, the good news: the videos look realistic.

The catch: you can’t choose which AI girlfriend appears, it’s unclear if these girls are even part of the character lineup, and prompts often don’t work.

I ran the same prompt twice and got the same video—with a guy—both times.

This isn’t true AI generation but likely a preset video library triggered by keywords, feeling like a GIF trying too hard to be a video.

Voice Generation

Secrets AI

Secrets AI delivers voice generation that sounds genuinely human. No robotic tones or awkward pauses—just smooth, realistic dialogue.

When discussions turn flirty, the voice immediately responds with appropriate tonal shifts—becoming more playful and expressive.

One limitation: voice features only work through calls, not recorded messages.

Nectar AI

You call your AI girlfriend—she answers, sounding like a nature documentary narrator.

During my tests, even when the conversation got playful, the voice stayed stubbornly professional.

Safety & Privacy

Secrets AI

• Looking for encryption details? I found none.
• Searching for data retention policies? Nothing concrete.
• Wondering if they share your intimate chats with third parties? They don't say.

The app clearly stores your conversations, but it provides zero details about what they keep, for how long, or who might access them.

The only privacy feature that actually works is discreet billing - charges appear as "Sun Clinical Laboratories" on your statement.

Nectar AI

While Nectar AI uses standard security measures, they don't offer end-to-end encryption.

Your chat logs, images, and profile data are stored on their servers, with a promise to delete or anonymize it—but only after it's been used for "business needs."

Your bank statement will show "nectar ai" - no awkward explanations needed.