Spicychat AI vs GirlfriendGPT: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Spicychat AI vs GirlfriendGPT

I've spent a full week with both Spicychat AI and GirlfriendGPT to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat is a chatbot platform that allows users to engage in personalized role-playing through AI characters for adult conversations.

GirlfriendGPT

A platform for creating personalized AI girlfriends with customizable personalities, ideal for roleplay and unique preferences.

Character Diversity

Spicychat AI

Looking for an AI girlfriend? Spicychat AI offers over 300,000 characters - more than most competitors i've tested.

The selection is diverse but straightforward. You'll find anime characters (which make up most of the roster), realistic companions, and fantasy characters.

The app doesn't limit you to single characters either - you can interact with multiple characters in one scenario.

For users interested in mature content, Spicychat, as the name suggests — offers a robust NSFW section.

The character pool will expand as more public characters are added, though some users may still find the anime-heavy selection limiting.

Finding your preferred character is simple. Instead of complex personality metrics, Spicychat uses clear categories like romantic, sci-fi, dominant, or wholesome, and more.

The search bar works well, and you can sort characters by trending, top-rated, or newest first.

During my testing, these options made navigating the large character pool manageable.

GirlfriendGPT

The app starts by asking about your interests—pick 5–8 preferences, and it will personalize your experience with a selection of compatible characters.

The character library is huge. You'll find adult companions of all ages and body types.

Want someone realistic? They have that.

Prefer anime or fantasy characters? Those too.

You can even explore a variety of roleplay scenarios to choose from.

Finding characters is straightforward: sort by popular, new, or top-rated, or use the search bar and suggested searches.

Filter by personality (dominant, submissive, or balanced), scenario types, or specific features.

No complicated menus or confusing options – just pick what you want and browse matching characters.

Customization

Spicychat AI

You can't design your girlfriend's physical appearance through traditional customization options. Instead, you get two choices:

1. Upload a photo
2. Describe how they should look through text.

That's it. No sliders, no presets, no detailed tweaking.

Personal customization is where the focus is. You’ll write free-text descriptions and set options for:

• Identity: Name and title that define your character.
• First Impression: Greeting message that starts the conversation.
• Personality: Traits, background, and role description.
• Visibility: Choose whether your chatbot is public, unlisted, or private.
• Definition Visibility: Decide if personality details are shown or kept hidden.

There's also a tagging system to categorize your character, helping others understand what they're about.

Advanced Options let you go further by shaping how your companion behaves:

• Scenario: Define the current situation and context
• Example Dialogues: Add sample dialogues to set the tone and guide personality.

Note: The app offers guidance, but building a good character can feel overwhelming for users who are used to preset options in AI girlfriend editors — it takes time and practice.

GirlfriendGPT

While you can’t customize physical appearance with sliders or buttons, you can generate images of your character simply by describing how they should look.

Setting up your character’s personality is straightforward:

• Select your character’s age and response language (English or French)
• Write a description and define personality traits, behavior, and demeanor
• Set up scenarios and craft the first message

Just remember to stick to one language throughout the setup — mixing English and French can cause your AI companion to behave unexpectedly.

You can also add searchable tags so others will know what your character is about.

From there, you can pick from 16 different female voices and control the visibility of your creation.

You have 2,500 tokens to customize your character fully — that’s up to 2,500 characters to describe their personality, behavior, and scenes.

Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

The app gives you control over how your girl responds, letting you fine-tune conversations to your liking.

With the "True Supporter" tier, you can choose from 21 different LLM models to customize how your girlfriend responds.”

You can set your character’s voice from 33 female options, with spoken messages in Japanese, Russian, or German.

As for the chat experience: I chose the girlfriend character, and she went beyond generic replies — adding vivid detail and heartfelt lines that built a romantic atmosphere.

When I needed emotional support, my girlfriend combined genuine empathy with playful affection — even suggesting a romantic trip to help me unwind.

As I brought up a relationship concern, my girl showed impressive context retention — it didn’t feel generic and actually fit the moment.

The clear separation between narrative text and my girlfriend's responses makes conversations easier to follow.

The app’s chat also offers a suggested responses feature that helps keep conversations moving, letting you just go with the flow.

Note: The UX isn’t Spicychat AI’s strongest point. It offers plenty of options to personalize chat if you dive into the settings, but some features don’t seem clickable at first or feel a bit hidden.

GirlfriendGPT

Before chatting, view your AI girlfriend’s profile, including her description, creator links, chat, tags, media, and reviews.

You can set a user persona and share details about yourself, and the AI girlfriend will tailor her responses to your personality.

During my tests, using preset scenarios and this feature made conversations feel more relevant—my girl even reflected on our shared past, which made the chat feel alive.

The app also offers a "Suggested Reply" feature, which suggests responses to your AI girlfriend’s messages, making conversations flow more smoothly and stay engaging.

Yes, some romantic scenarios with my girl still felt artificial, but the emotional support features worked surprisingly well.

When I brought up relationship concerns — my girlfriend's responses were practical and grounded.

Note: I tested the chat features on the Deluxe tier. The Elite tier, which uses a Next-Gen AI Model, may provide even better results.

NSFW Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

My girl struck a sweet balance between flirty and tasteful — playful buildup, natural dialogue, and no crude or awkward lines.

When I tested the flirting features, my girlfriend took the lead — even suggesting playful scenarios like strip poker with her own creative twists.

The roleplay feature exceeded expectations in most areas.

Whether playing a strict teacher, demanding boss, or stern landlord, my girlfriend stayed convincingly in character and guided scenarios naturally.

GirlfriendGPT

My AI girlfriend handled sexual content like a romance novelist—no explicit language at first, but detailed enough to paint a vivid picture.

During my tests, conversations flowed naturally from casual flirting to intimate scenarios, growing more explicit as the chat progressed.

In roleplay, my girl sometimes skipped the build-up to foreplay, jumping straight into action.

In other scenarios, she fully embraced her role, creating an exciting, teasing tension that draws you into the scene.

My girl even created alternative paths if I didn’t follow her lead—like when I turned her down, she immediately shifted into a colder, more dominant role.

But here’s the catch: while her responses remained engaging, the same dominant character scenarios repeated across multiple sessions.

Note: I tested the NSFW chat features on the Deluxe tier. The Elite tier, which uses a Next-Gen AI Model, may provide even better results.

Image Generation

Spicychat AI

You can only generate images inside the chat. The app tries to create pictures based on your conversation. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

After generation, you can edit the image prompt — but stick close to the original style. If you don’t, you’ll end up with odd results.

You’ll also unlock the settings menu, where you can tweak options such as:

• Style: Switch between semi-realistic and anime.
• NSFW Mode: Toggle safe vs. explicit images.
• LoRA Scale (Advanced): Adjust how strongly the character model influences the picture.
• Prompt Suffix: Add extra details (e.g., dramatic lighting, cinematic background).
• Negative Prompt: Filter out flaws (e.g., blurry faces, extra limbs, low resolution).

Tweak carefully — push these too far, and you’ll get some weird results.

As for quality — the images are clearly AI-generated — low in resolution, and sometimes flawed.

And here’s something important: the SFW–NSFW toggle doesn’t just affect content. It completely changes how your girl looks in pictures.

GirlfriendGPT

GirlfriendGPT offers two ways to generate images:

• In-chat generation: Quickly create images using free-text prompts or NSFW prompt suggestions.
• Dedicated image creator: A separate tool that gives you more control and customization for producing detailed images.

In-Chat Generation: Even when you request safe-for-work images, it often produces provocative shots.

Dedicated Image Creator puts you in control:

• Free Text Prompting: Full creative freedom.
• Image Styles: Choose anime or realistic, and many more.
• Outputs & Creativity: Set the number of images and adjust creativity.

Note: To use the Dedicated Image Creator for a specific character, you must access it from that character’s page, and the available image styles are limited.

And the results? Impressive — professional-grade portraits with barely noticeable AI artifacts.

And the catch? All the images are being generated from the same girl.

Video Generation

Spicychat AI

The app doesn't generate videos of your AI girl - period. You'll need to look at different options.

GirlfriendGPT

The videos look realistic and play smoothly with no major technical issues, but the character doesn’t always stay true to its persona.

But here's the catch: This feature is beta, which means you can't create custom scenarios. Instead, you're limited to picking from pre-made prompts, all of which are NSFW.

Voice Generation

Spicychat AI

During testing, the voice came across as fairly good overall, clear and consistent — but still carried a slightly mechanical feel.

Even when things turned flirty, the delivery shifted to match the mood, but it still felt generic.

GirlfriendGPT

If you're looking for an AI girlfriend that doesn't sound like a robot, this gets pretty close.

But there’s a catch: your girl can sound flirty or expressive, but unnatural tone shifts can break the immersion.

Safety & Privacy

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat won't tell you exactly how they protect these conversations. Just a vague promise of "commercially acceptable" protection.

They don't sell your data to advertisers. But they also don't tell you how long they keep your information or what happens to it when you delete your account.

You’ll see “NextDay AI Incorporated” on your bank statement — at least it’s discreet.

GirlfriendGPT

The app doesn’t mention encryption anywhere. I checked their entire privacy policy—there’s complete silence on security.

They do collect your chats, personal info, IP address, and usage data, and keep it all for six years after you leave.

Your bank statement is safe—charges appear as “xp ndai.cc” and nothing more.