Spicychat AI vs Nomi AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Spicychat AI vs Nomi AI

I've spent a full week with both Spicychat AI and Nomi AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat is a chatbot platform that allows users to engage in personalized role-playing through AI characters for adult conversations.

Nomi AI

An AI girlfriend platform that enables the creation of personalized virtual girlfirend with distinct personalities for friendship, romance, mentorship, and roleplays.

Character Diversity

Spicychat AI

Looking for an AI girlfriend? Spicychat AI offers over 300,000 characters - more than most competitors i've tested.

The selection is diverse but straightforward. You'll find anime characters (which make up most of the roster), realistic companions, and fantasy characters.

The app doesn't limit you to single characters either - you can interact with multiple characters in one scenario.

For users interested in mature content, Spicychat, as the name suggests — offers a robust NSFW section.

The character pool will expand as more public characters are added, though some users may still find the anime-heavy selection limiting.

Finding your preferred character is simple. Instead of complex personality metrics, Spicychat uses clear categories like romantic, sci-fi, dominant, or wholesome, and more.

The search bar works well, and you can sort characters by trending, top-rated, or newest first.

During my testing, these options made navigating the large character pool manageable.

Nomi AI

Here's the truth about Nomi AI's character selection: there isn't one. You can only interact with characters you build yourself.

Customization

Spicychat AI

You can't design your girlfriend's physical appearance through traditional customization options. Instead, you get two choices:

1. Upload a photo
2. Describe how they should look through text.

That's it. No sliders, no presets, no detailed tweaking.

Personal customization is where the focus is. You’ll write free-text descriptions and set options for:

• Identity: Name and title that define your character.
• First Impression: Greeting message that starts the conversation.
• Personality: Traits, background, and role description.
• Visibility: Choose whether your chatbot is public, unlisted, or private.
• Definition Visibility: Decide if personality details are shown or kept hidden.

There's also a tagging system to categorize your character, helping others understand what they're about.

Advanced Options let you go further by shaping how your companion behaves:

• Scenario: Define the current situation and context
• Example Dialogues: Add sample dialogues to set the tone and guide personality.

Note: The app offers guidance, but building a good character can feel overwhelming for users who are used to preset options in AI girlfriend editors — it takes time and practice.

Nomi AI

The customization itself is straightforward but limited.

You’ll start by choosing the basics for your girlfriend:

• Relationship type (like friend, girlfriend, mentor, etc.)
• Gender

What you won't find here are detailed physical customization options or anime-style characters. Instead, you simply choose a photo for your girlfriend from a curated gallery.

You can set her personality and interests.

Want to write a background story? It's optional, but it helps shape your girlfirend identity.

Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

The app gives you control over how your girl responds, letting you fine-tune conversations to your liking.

With the "True Supporter" tier, you can choose from 21 different LLM models to customize how your girlfriend responds.”

You can set your character’s voice from 33 female options, with spoken messages in Japanese, Russian, or German.

As for the chat experience: I chose the girlfriend character, and she went beyond generic replies — adding vivid detail and heartfelt lines that built a romantic atmosphere.

When I needed emotional support, my girlfriend combined genuine empathy with playful affection — even suggesting a romantic trip to help me unwind.

As I brought up a relationship concern, my girl showed impressive context retention — it didn’t feel generic and actually fit the moment.

The clear separation between narrative text and my girlfriend's responses makes conversations easier to follow.

The app’s chat also offers a suggested responses feature that helps keep conversations moving, letting you just go with the flow.

Note: The UX isn’t Spicychat AI’s strongest point. It offers plenty of options to personalize chat if you dive into the settings, but some features don’t seem clickable at first or feel a bit hidden.

Nomi AI

Nomi delivers what it promises. I set her personality traits to flirtatious, and that's exactly how she behaved.

While the emotional support isn't groundbreaking, the replies are short and natural, making it feel more like texting a real person than chatting with an AI.

My girlfriend handles relationship talks smoothly, without the robotic feel.

The downside? You'll wait longer between messages than competitors.

NSFW Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

My girl struck a sweet balance between flirty and tasteful — playful buildup, natural dialogue, and no crude or awkward lines.

When I tested the flirting features, my girlfriend took the lead — even suggesting playful scenarios like strip poker with her own creative twists.

The roleplay feature exceeded expectations in most areas.

Whether playing a strict teacher, demanding boss, or stern landlord, my girlfriend stayed convincingly in character and guided scenarios naturally.

Nomi AI

Your girlfriend is open to intimate discussions, but the results are mixed. When she's good, she's engaging, offering detailed responses and playful banter.

But there's a catch: she makes progress in the interaction, but then pulls back, which can come off a bit robotic or inconsistent.

For roleplay enthusiasts, here's the truth: While she'll participate in your scenarios, her responses lack detail, and you'll need more time before things get spicy.

Image Generation

Spicychat AI

You can only generate images inside the chat. The app tries to create pictures based on your conversation. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

After generation, you can edit the image prompt — but stick close to the original style. If you don’t, you’ll end up with odd results.

You’ll also unlock the settings menu, where you can tweak options such as:

• Style: Switch between semi-realistic and anime.
• NSFW Mode: Toggle safe vs. explicit images.
• LoRA Scale (Advanced): Adjust how strongly the character model influences the picture.
• Prompt Suffix: Add extra details (e.g., dramatic lighting, cinematic background).
• Negative Prompt: Filter out flaws (e.g., blurry faces, extra limbs, low resolution).

Tweak carefully — push these too far, and you’ll get some weird results.

As for quality — the images are clearly AI-generated — low in resolution, and sometimes flawed.

And here’s something important: the SFW–NSFW toggle doesn’t just affect content. It completely changes how your girl looks in pictures.

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images: a dedicated "create art" feature and in-chat generation, but NSFW content creation is not allowed.

In-chat image generation is a bit of a mixed bag—sometimes it nails it, other times it completely misses the mark.

The "create art" feature is your best bet. It consistently produces high-quality, realistic images based on your free-text description.

While the overall results are impressive, you'll notice some quirks with hands and fingers - they often look slightly unnatural.

Video Generation

Spicychat AI

The app doesn't generate videos of your AI girl - period. You'll need to look at different options.

Nomi AI

The sharp and detailed videos make the AI girlfriend feel more lifelike than static images.

While these videos look great, they’re completely silent — your AI girl won’t speak or make any sounds.

But here's the truth: while impressive, it's not flawless. The eye movements can look unnatural, and some body animations appear stiff.

Voice Generation

Spicychat AI

During testing, the voice came across as fairly good overall, clear and consistent — but still carried a slightly mechanical feel.

Even when things turned flirty, the delivery shifted to match the mood, but it still felt generic.

Nomi AI

I spent hours testing her voice features, and here's the truth: imagine an audiobook narrator attempting to be your girlfriend.

I tried flirting with my girlfriend, but the voice stayed emotionless.

However, there is a workaround: you can connect an Eleven Labs API key to access different voice options, giving your girlfriend a more unique sound.

Safety & Privacy

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat won't tell you exactly how they protect these conversations. Just a vague promise of "commercially acceptable" protection.

They don't sell your data to advertisers. But they also don't tell you how long they keep your information or what happens to it when you delete your account.

You’ll see “NextDay AI Incorporated” on your bank statement — at least it’s discreet.

Nomi AI

Your chats with Nomi aren't encrypted and even advise against sharing personal information.

Nomi stores your account details, chat messages, and usage data and may share them with third-party service providers.

Your bank statement will show "Nomi.ai" as the merchant.