Spicychat AI vs Nomi AI: Which One Should You Use In 2025?

Spicychat AI vs Nomi AI

I've spent a full week with both Spicychat AI and Nomi AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat is a chatbot platform that allows users to engage in personalized roleplaying through AI characters for adult conversations.

Nomi AI

An AI girlfriend platform that enables the creation of personalized virtual girlfirend with distinct personalities for friendship, romance, mentorship, and roleplays.

Character Diversity

Spicychat AI

The app offers over 60,000 characters to choose from. I spent a couple of days testing their library, and here's what you need to know.

The selection breaks down into three main categories: anime, realistic, and fantasy characters, with clear tags that tell you exactly what to expect - romantic, sci-fi, dominant, or wholesome.

The platform feels organized, and searching for specific character types is straightforward, though having a dedicated personality filter would make it even better.

Want something specific? Filter by gender, personality type, or content rating (NSFW included).

Nomi AI

Here's the truth about Nomi AI's character selection: there isn't one. You can only interact with characters you build yourself.

Customization

Spicychat AI

You can't design your girlfriend's physical appearance through traditional customization options. Instead, you get two choices: upload a photo or describe how they should look through text. That's it. No sliders, no presets, no detailed tweaking.

SpicyChat's physical customization is minimalist, but personal customization is where the focus is. You'll write free-text descriptions of your companion's traits and craft their greeting message.

There's also a tagging system to categorize your character, helping others understand what they're about.

Nomi AI

The customization itself is straightforward but limited.

You’ll start by choosing the basics for your girlfriend:

• Relationship type (like friend, girlfriend, mentor, etc.)
• Gender

What you won't find here are detailed physical customization options or anime-style characters. Instead, you simply choose a photo for your girlfriend from a curated gallery.

You can set her personality and interests.

Want to write a background story? It's optional, but it helps shape your girlfirend identity.

Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

If you're looking for romantic interaction, you'll find the flirting natural and the emotional responses thoughtful.

It responds with relevant comments when you share concerns or seek emotional support.

Different colors of the chat separate narrative text from character responses, making conversations easy to follow.

There's also a response suggestions feature when you're stuck. Does it help? Yes, especially for users new to AI chat apps.

Nomi AI

Nomi delivers what it promises. I set her personality traits to flirtatious, and that's exactly how she behaved.

While the emotional support isn't groundbreaking, the replies are short and natural, making it feel more like texting a real person than chatting with an AI.

My girlfriend handles relationship talks smoothly, without the robotic feel.

The downside? You'll wait longer between messages than competitors.

NSFW Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

During my tests, my girlfriend showed she could discuss fantasy topics naturally. No awkward robot responses or sudden character breaks.

Role-play scenarios were hit-or-miss. Some attempts led to engaging exchanges, others stayed surprisingly tame.

Being clear about what you want usually works better than subtle hints or vague suggestions.

Nomi AI

Your girlfriend is open to intimate discussions, but the results are mixed. When she's good, she's engaging, offering detailed responses and playful banter.

But there's a catch: she makes progress in the interaction, but then pulls back, which can come off a bit robotic or inconsistent.

For roleplay enthusiasts, here's the truth: While she'll participate in your scenarios, her responses lack detail, and you'll need more time before things get spicy.

Image Generation

Spicychat AI

You get unlimited image generation with a "True Supporter" membership. The pictures look decent but are nothing that will make you go "wow," but they serve their purpose of giving your girlfriend a face.

Here's the catch: You can't design your character's look before generating images. You're stuck with tweaking whatever the AI gives you afterward.

You can only make changes after the photo is generated, and trust me - trying to change things often creates weird results.

There's also an NSFW filter, which changes what kind of images you'll get.

Nomi AI

Nomi AI offers two ways to generate images: a dedicated "create art" feature and in-chat generation, but NSFW content creation is not allowed.

In-chat image generation is a bit of a mixed bag—sometimes it nails it, other times it completely misses the mark.

The "create art" feature is your best bet. It consistently produces high-quality, realistic images based on your free-text description.

While the overall results are impressive, you'll notice some quirks with hands and fingers - they often look slightly unnatural.

Video Generation

Spicychat AI

The app doesn't generate videos of your AI girl - period. You'll need to look at different options.

Nomi AI

The sharp and detailed videos make the AI girlfriend feel more lifelike than static images.

While these videos look great, they’re completely silent — your AI girl won’t speak or make any sounds.

But here's the truth: while impressive, it's not flawless. The eye movements can look unnatural, and some body animations appear stiff.

Voice Generation

Spicychat AI

My girlfriend managed basic speech but couldn't nail those emotional moments.

Just flat, mechanical responses that remind you you're talking to a computer, and this feature is locked behind SpicyChat's most expensive subscription tier.

Nomi AI

I spent hours testing her voice features, and here's the truth: imagine an audiobook narrator attempting to be your girlfriend.

I tried flirting with my girlfriend, but the voice stayed emotionless.

However, there is a workaround: you can connect an Eleven Labs API key to access different voice options, giving your girlfriend a more unique sound.

Privacy

Spicychat AI

Your messages are encrypted during transmission and storage. But that's where the complete privacy guarantee ends.

They share this data with business partners and can't guarantee full confidentiality. You can ask them to delete your data, but remember, what's shared is already shared.

You'll see "NextDay AI Incorporated" when you check your bank statement.

Nomi AI

Your chats with Nomi aren't encrypted and even advise against sharing personal information.

Nomi stores your account details, chat messages, and usage data and may share them with third-party service providers.

Your bank statement will show "Nomi.ai" as the merchant.