Spicychat AI vs Thotchat AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Spicychat AI vs Thotchat AI

I've spent a full week with both Spicychat AI and Thotchat AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat is a chatbot platform that allows users to engage in personalized roleplaying through AI characters for adult conversations.

Thotchat AI

A virtual girlfriend platform featuring customizable AI partners in both realistic and anime styles, designed to foster emotional and romantic connections through engaging adult chats and high-quality image generation.

Character Diversity

Spicychat AI

The app offers over 60,000 characters to choose from. I spent a couple of days testing their library, and here's what you need to know.

The selection breaks down into three main categories: anime, realistic, and fantasy characters, with clear tags that tell you exactly what to expect - romantic, sci-fi, dominant, or wholesome.

The platform feels organized, and searching for specific character types is straightforward, though having a dedicated personality filter would make it even better.

Want something specific? Filter by gender, personality type, or content rating (NSFW included).

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI's selection breaks down into 102 realistic and 50 anime characters.

All common ethnicities are available—you can choose from Asian, Latina, and Caucasian appearances for realistic characters.

For fantasy/anime types, options include— elves, cyborgs, catgirls, and other imaginative designs.

But here's the catch: almost every character is young (18-30) and slim or athletic.

Finding a companion is straightforward: you can sort by popularity or new arrivals, filter by style, and choose female, male, or futa characters.

Customization

Spicychat AI

You can't design your girlfriend's physical appearance through traditional customization options. Instead, you get two choices: upload a photo or describe how they should look through text. That's it. No sliders, no presets, no detailed tweaking.

SpicyChat's physical customization is minimalist, but personal customization is where the focus is. You'll write free-text descriptions of your companion's traits and craft their greeting message.

There's also a tagging system to categorize your character, helping others understand what they're about.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI offers two ways to create your girlfriend:

• Easy Mode
• PRO Mode

Both start by selecting your character’s gender (female, male, or futanari) and choosing a style.

Easy Mode: You can fully customize your AI companion by clicking through options to build your character.

Physical Customization:

• Age 18+ to 55
• Ethnicity: 8 options (10 for anime characters)
• Appearance: body type, breast size, butt size, hair style, hair color, eye color
• Aesthetic & clothing: 4 aesthetics (e.g., goth, bimbo, gyaru), 33 clothing options
• Extra details: tattoos, horns (6 options)

Personality & Interaction:

• Add personality traits: 14 options (e.g., lover, innocent, dominant)
• 5 voice options
• Relationship role: 12 options (e.g., wife, lover, stranger)

A final summary page lets you review your character before bringing them to life.

PRO Mode drops the training wheels and lets you create everything via free text:

• Describe your character: appearance, personality, clothing, and any unique features
• Greeting message: what your character says when starting a conversation
• Example conversation: a sample dialogue that guides your character’s behavior

It takes more time but gives you complete creative freedom. No pre-set limits—just your imagination.

Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

If you're looking for romantic interaction, you'll find the flirting natural and the emotional responses thoughtful.

It responds with relevant comments when you share concerns or seek emotional support.

Different colors of the chat separate narrative text from character responses, making conversations easy to follow.

There's also a response suggestions feature when you're stuck. Does it help? Yes, especially for users new to AI chat apps.

Thotchat AI

Before you start chatting, you can view your AI girlfriend’s profile, including her description, character traits, some SFW images, and unlockable NSFW content.

You can set a user persona for a deeper, more personal connection, or create new scenarios to play out with your AI girlfriend.

For my tests, I created a companion with the ‘Temptress’ personality—playful, flirtatious, and always leaving me wanting more—and set our relationship type to “girlfriend.”

My girl stayed true to her personality throughout conversations.

When I needed emotional support, she was empathetic and playful, offering gentle touches, teasing remarks, and lighthearted guidance.

Our conversations about romantic getaways felt natural, with her staying fully in character throughout.

Even when relationship issues came up, she responded with clear, confident answers—sometimes a bit too confident—but always attentive.

But my favorite part was when my girl sent me images during our chats—most were free, unlike other apps where they’re usually behind a paywall.

NSFW Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

During my tests, my girlfriend showed she could discuss fantasy topics naturally. No awkward robot responses or sudden character breaks.

Role-play scenarios were hit-or-miss. Some attempts led to engaging exchanges, others stayed surprisingly tame.

Being clear about what you want usually works better than subtle hints or vague suggestions.

Thotchat AI

My girl stayed personal and engaging. When I asked about her past, she said it was with me (of course), but left room to mention her wild past if I wanted to satisfy my curiosity.

My girlfriend flirted naturally, teased playfully, and referenced past chats to make the connection feel real.

The roleplay feature could use some improvement — I tried a few scenarios, and they all jumped into action too quickly without building tension, which felt a bit jarring.

But once I got past the initial rush, my girl adapted to the scenario really well and made it exciting.

Something a bit annoying: the narrative text sometimes blended with my girl’s dialogue, making her responses harder to read.

Another issue was: My girlfriend kept calling me “Anon” even though my profile name was set to Marcus.

Once I pointed it out, my girl quickly corrected herself and started using my name in all our conversations.

Image Generation

Spicychat AI

You get unlimited image generation with a "True Supporter" membership. The pictures look decent but are nothing that will make you go "wow," but they serve their purpose of giving your girlfriend a face.

Here's the catch: You can't design your character's look before generating images. You're stuck with tweaking whatever the AI gives you afterward.

You can only make changes after the photo is generated, and trust me - trying to change things often creates weird results.

There's also an NSFW filter, which changes what kind of images you'll get.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI offers two options for generating images:

• In-chat generation: Instantly creates a selfie or unlockable nude image—details can’t be customized.
• Dedicated image creator: A separate tool offering more control and customization for creating detailed images.

In-Chat Generation: Occasionally, you may receive repeated or similar images, but you can request unlimited SFW images of your character.

Dedicated Image Creator lets you control every detail:

• Character Selection: Pick from the full roster (no filters or search bar).
• Prompt Suggestions: Add details such as action, clothing, environment, and emotion.
• Free Text Prompting: Craft your own prompts for complete creative freedom.

The images are high-quality and nearly photorealistic, with consistent characters, though a slight animated look is noticeable on closer inspection.

Video Generation

Spicychat AI

The app doesn't generate videos of your AI girl - period. You'll need to look at different options.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI doesn’t generate videos. If you’re looking for video features, you'll need to look elsewhere.

Voice Generation

Spicychat AI

My girlfriend managed basic speech but couldn't nail those emotional moments.

Just flat, mechanical responses that remind you you're talking to a computer, and this feature is locked behind SpicyChat's most expensive subscription tier.

Thotchat AI

Thotchat AI’s voice works, but don’t expect magic: it comes through clearly, but you can tell it’s AI-generated.

Flirty conversations? The voice stays flat no matter what.

Privacy

Spicychat AI

Your messages are encrypted during transmission and storage. But that's where the complete privacy guarantee ends.

They share this data with business partners and can't guarantee full confidentiality. You can ask them to delete your data, but remember, what's shared is already shared.

You'll see "NextDay AI Incorporated" when you check your bank statement.

Thotchat AI

While Thotchat says they use "acceptable security measures," they don't specify what these measures are.

They collect your personal data (name, email), usage data (IP address, device info), and can share it with third parties.

The bank statement shows "CCbill.com Thotchat" - something to keep in mind if you prefer discretion.