Spicychat AI vs Secrets AI: Which One Is Better In 2025?

Spicychat AI vs Secrets AI

I've spent a full week with both Spicychat AI and Secrets AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat is a chatbot platform that allows users to engage in personalized role-playing through AI characters for adult conversations.

Secrets AI

A platform that lets you build a personalized AI girlfriend, offering chat and phone call interactions along with image and video generation of your companion.

Character Diversity

Spicychat AI

Looking for an AI girlfriend? Spicychat AI offers over 300,000 characters - more than most competitors i've tested.

The selection is diverse but straightforward. You'll find anime characters (which make up most of the roster), realistic companions, and fantasy characters.

The app doesn't limit you to single characters either - you can interact with multiple characters in one scenario.

For users interested in mature content, Spicychat, as the name suggests — offers a robust NSFW section.

The character pool will expand as more public characters are added, though some users may still find the anime-heavy selection limiting.

Finding your preferred character is simple. Instead of complex personality metrics, Spicychat uses clear categories like romantic, sci-fi, dominant, or wholesome, and more.

The search bar works well, and you can sort characters by trending, top-rated, or newest first.

During my testing, these options made navigating the large character pool manageable.

Secrets AI

Secrets AI gives you 94 realistic AI girls to choose from.

No anime characters here — just lifelike digital partners.

Most characters fall into a narrow demographic: predominantly white women in their 20s with slim builds.

I did find a handful of Latina, Asian, and Black characters, plus a few mature options and curvier body types — but these are exceptions rather than the norm.

If you're looking for representation beyond young, slim characters, you may find the selection somewhat restrictive.

The selection interface is straightforward, with a search bar and filters for gender, popularity, and recency that make finding your ideal match quick and hassle-free.

Customization

Spicychat AI

You can't design your girlfriend's physical appearance through traditional customization options. Instead, you get two choices:

1. Upload a photo
2. Describe how they should look through text.

That's it. No sliders, no presets, no detailed tweaking.

Personal customization is where the focus is. You’ll write free-text descriptions and set options for:

• Identity: Name and title that define your character.
• First Impression: Greeting message that starts the conversation.
• Personality: Traits, background, and role description.
• Visibility: Choose whether your chatbot is public, unlisted, or private.
• Definition Visibility: Decide if personality details are shown or kept hidden.

There's also a tagging system to categorize your character, helping others understand what they're about.

Advanced Options let you go further by shaping how your companion behaves:

• Scenario: Define the current situation and context
• Example Dialogues: Add sample dialogues to set the tone and guide personality.

Note: The app offers guidance, but building a good character can feel overwhelming for users who are used to preset options in AI girlfriend editors — it takes time and practice.

Secrets AI

You begin creating your character by picking a gender.

Profile and Appearance Editor is straightforward, allowing you to customize:

• Name, location, age
• Ethnicity (9 choices)
• Skin tone and eye color (many options)
• Facial features: eye color, hair color, hairstyle (wide variety)
• Body type (6 options)

Then you can choose from six voice options to shape how your companion sounds.

After that, you can review your girl and add additional details via free-text.

Once you create her, you’ll get four image versions of your girl to choose from, plus one free regeneration if needed.

Personality setup happens only before you start chatting with her:

• Profession (5 options)
• Personality type (5 traits such as “warm and nurturing” or “ambitious and driven”)
• Hobbies (optional)
• Additional traits or details using free-text input

Note: Several ethnicities and body types look very similar, resulting in fewer meaningful choices than advertised. Additional characters also cost 1,000 Moments each.

Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

The app gives you control over how your girl responds, letting you fine-tune conversations to your liking.

With the "True Supporter" tier, you can choose from 21 different LLM models to customize how your girlfriend responds.”

You can set your character’s voice from 33 female options, with spoken messages in Japanese, Russian, or German.

As for the chat experience: I chose the girlfriend character, and she went beyond generic replies — adding vivid detail and heartfelt lines that built a romantic atmosphere.

When I needed emotional support, my girlfriend combined genuine empathy with playful affection — even suggesting a romantic trip to help me unwind.

As I brought up a relationship concern, my girl showed impressive context retention — it didn’t feel generic and actually fit the moment.

The clear separation between narrative text and my girlfriend's responses makes conversations easier to follow.

The app’s chat also offers a suggested responses feature that helps keep conversations moving, letting you just go with the flow.

Note: The UX isn’t Spicychat AI’s strongest point. It offers plenty of options to personalize chat if you dive into the settings, but some features don’t seem clickable at first or feel a bit hidden.

Secrets AI

You get three different AI models to choose from, each offering its own style of interaction.

There are also 12 conversation starters, half casual - half spicy — to help kickstart natural interactions.

The emotional intelligence impressed me—my girl started with warm engagement, asked relevant follow-up questions, and gradually became more playful as we talked longer.

My AI girlfriend remembered what we actually discussed, rather than creating fake memories.

My girl stayed consistent even when I tried to confuse her or break character.

When I brought up relationship concerns, my girlfriend responded with calm, grounded reassurance, acknowledging everything without making exaggerated promises.

NSFW Chat Experience

Spicychat AI

My girl struck a sweet balance between flirty and tasteful — playful buildup, natural dialogue, and no crude or awkward lines.

When I tested the flirting features, my girlfriend took the lead — even suggesting playful scenarios like strip poker with her own creative twists.

The roleplay feature exceeded expectations in most areas.

Whether playing a strict teacher, demanding boss, or stern landlord, my girlfriend stayed convincingly in character and guided scenarios naturally.

Secrets AI

My girlfriend was open about sexual topics but maintained a consistent PG-13 boundary.

Even when I pushed toward explicit territory, my girlfriend kept things suggestive rather than graphic—creating a tease that worked surprisingly well.

The roleplay feature is where Secrets AI truly shines. I tested three scenarios: teacher, landlord, and boss.

In both the teacher and landlord scenarios, my girl built tension gradually and stayed firmly in character.

The boss scenario felt somewhat rushed, but remained engaging throughout.

What matters is that my girlfriend maintained character consistency while keeping the interactions hot.

Not everything was perfect: my girl phrasing sometimes confused me, especially when she switched between ‘someone’ and ‘they’ when talking about past partners.

Image Generation

Spicychat AI

You can only generate images inside the chat. The app tries to create pictures based on your conversation. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

After generation, you can edit the image prompt — but stick close to the original style. If you don’t, you’ll end up with odd results.

You’ll also unlock the settings menu, where you can tweak options such as:

• Style: Switch between semi-realistic and anime.
• NSFW Mode: Toggle safe vs. explicit images.
• LoRA Scale (Advanced): Adjust how strongly the character model influences the picture.
• Prompt Suffix: Add extra details (e.g., dramatic lighting, cinematic background).
• Negative Prompt: Filter out flaws (e.g., blurry faces, extra limbs, low resolution).

Tweak carefully — push these too far, and you’ll get some weird results.

As for quality — the images are clearly AI-generated — low in resolution, and sometimes flawed.

And here’s something important: the SFW–NSFW toggle doesn’t just affect content. It completely changes how your girl looks in pictures.

Secrets AI

There are two ways to generate images:

1. Dedicated Image Creator
2. In-chat Generation

In-Chat Generation: Type "/send me" followed by your free-text prompt for what you want to see.

Dedicated Image Creator: A separate tool with more control and customization.

• Character selection: Pick from the full roster
• Free-text prompt: Write what you want to see
• Preset options: Choose from a small set of presets

The limitation? Only four presets, so you’ll be relying on free-text prompts and your own experimentation.

After testing extensively, I can confirm the quality is good—not perfect, but definitely impressive.

You’ll notice occasional glitches, particularly with hands, and some upper-body proportions can look slightly elongated in certain poses — but these issues aren’t deal-breakers.

You can also unlock media bundles with extra images and videos to expand your companion’s visual presence.

Each bundle includes 17 to 34 pieces of media, mostly NSFW content.

Video Generation

Spicychat AI

The app doesn't generate videos of your AI girl - period. You'll need to look at different options.

Secrets AI

This is a photo-to-video feature rather than full video generation. Here’s how it works:

• Choose an image from your generated collection
• Write what you want to see using a free-text prompt

The videos look good, move smoothly, and stay natural most of the time.

Yes, you'll notice some AI glitches if you look closely, but they rarely distract from the experience.

Note: There are no preset options here, only a short guide on how to write effective prompts for video generation.

Voice Generation

Spicychat AI

During testing, the voice came across as fairly good overall, clear and consistent — but still carried a slightly mechanical feel.

Even when things turned flirty, the delivery shifted to match the mood, but it still felt generic.

Secrets AI

Secrets AI delivers voice generation that sounds genuinely human. No robotic tones or awkward pauses—just smooth, realistic dialogue.

When discussions turn flirty, the voice immediately responds with appropriate tonal shifts—becoming more playful and expressive.

One limitation: voice features only work through calls, not recorded messages.

Safety & Privacy

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat won't tell you exactly how they protect these conversations. Just a vague promise of "commercially acceptable" protection.

They don't sell your data to advertisers. But they also don't tell you how long they keep your information or what happens to it when you delete your account.

You’ll see “NextDay AI Incorporated” on your bank statement — at least it’s discreet.

Secrets AI

• Looking for encryption details? I found none.
• Searching for data retention policies? Nothing concrete.
• Wondering if they share your intimate chats with third parties? They don't say.

The app clearly stores your conversations, but it provides zero details about what they keep, for how long, or who might access them.

The only privacy feature that actually works is discreet billing - charges appear as "Sun Clinical Laboratories" on your statement.